Do you use condoms for blowjobs with chicks you barely know, or do you guys go bareback all the time?
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Tough fucking question. I look at her over all health and mouth, but you can never be sure anyway. Head is worthless with a condom, I rather get a hand job. (nothing better than a strange mouth to insert)
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I'll let you know, after I get my first blowjob.
I ordered it on eBay, it should be here soon.Comment
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If she seems clean and healthy i usually do bareback, if she seems dirty i wont even touch her or let her touch me. sometimes u gotta take a risk, but a BJ with a condom SUCKSComment
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in the past I have used them with some men. It was always with partners that used them as a rule and always flavoured (Nonoxynol 9 is a beyond horrible to taste). However, to be honest in the years since then I don't go with anyone I don't know well enough to go down on without a condom.Comment
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Nahh.. I only use one when I bang the front or back.Comment
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nope, never have.....
gfynicky @ gmail.comComment
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If a woman insisted I use a condom for head I'd probally tell her to forget it. While I respect her right to want to be safe, it takes me an awfully long amount of time to cum from head WITHOUT a condom, I'd imagine it be near impossible with one. Now if she was willing to suck my dick an hour or so stright maybe I'd try.Comment
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Perservatifs are disgusting to taste. Try being the girl that get a mouth of lubricated, spermicide condom in your mouth.
And to be real this HIV thing is really over-hyped. I don't use them for oral and to be quite honest I don't like to use them any other time.
I find the damn things leave me raw and probably do more damage to me. It's really damn hard to get of the disease. I'm more concerned about things like Gono, Clymidia, etc. But most of those is easy to get rid of with anti-biotics
The only STDs that scare me are the Heps. And for the most part they can be avoided by not doing such stupid things as ass to mouth/pussy/etc. A little bit of cleaness goes a very long way.Comment
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Herpes doesn't exist in your world?Comment
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I would rather take care of it myself than getting a blowjob with a condom...Comment
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If a girl had herpes on her mouth a condom wouldn't necessarily protect you of she gave you head. Firstly because she doesn't have to have contact with the penis just the genral groinal area to give you herpes. Secondly the herpes virus can go through the lining of condoms.Originally posted by sarah_webincComment
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Originally posted by GatorB
I am aware of this....all to well as a good friend of mine contracted it recently whilst using a condom. It was more just a general statement towards it not being on the list of STDs to worry about...it is one of my current pet peaves that there isn't enough testing done for it or enough awareness. In the UK the cases amongst minors is going up in large amounts because they are giving head instead of fucking and don't think there is any risk involved at all.Comment
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Herpes was abig deal for about 3 years then AIDS came along. Fact is for most people they are 1000 more likely to get hat than AIDS. I remember when Valtrex first came out with comercials "Taking a pill 3 times for 7 days durring an outbreak? I don't have time for that I have a life to live". I though "Yeah bitch that attitude is why you've got herpes in the first place"Originally posted by sarah_webincComment
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No condoms for blowjobs here.... but I won't let them kiss me afterwards.....I don't endorse a god damn thing......
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herpes cases are on the rise..it is still a big dealOriginally posted by GatorBComment
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Perhps you misunderstood me. It always SHOULD have been a big deal, but AIDS kind of stole it's "thunder" so to speak. I'm old enought to remember whn herpes was new in the 70's. It was a big deal in the news. The first VD that had no cure. Then AIDS came and not only did not not have cure it would kill you.Originally posted by sarah_webincComment
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Originally posted by GatorB
AH! I thought that didn't sound like somethng you would say but there are so many people around here that don't know anything about sexual health that it is easy to misunderstand. Yes, you are right HIV took the spotlight away from any number of other STDs. I am exactly the right age to have grown up with HIV/AIDS as an issue for most of my life and I don't think I ever heard anyone my age in school mention herpes. Chickens coming home to roost comes to mind.Comment
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nope. i use a condom to have sex, but not for bjs.Comment
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I put a plastic bag over her head!M&A QueenComment
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Why would you think that?Originally posted by sarah_webinc
When my firends and I first heard about AIDS killing people we first thought "The diet candy is killing people?"I am exactly the right age to have grown up with HIV/AIDS as an issue for most of my life and I don't think I ever heard anyone my age in school mention herpes. Chickens coming home to roost comes to mind.
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because you tend to be one of the more educated posters on such topicsOriginally posted by GatorBComment
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Oh ok. I thought you meant you were shocked that I would say something intelligent. I'm not used to any sort of compliment.Originally posted by sarah_webincComment
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aren't you married unless you swingOriginally posted by MandyBlakeComment
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1. Herpes isn't a life threatening disease. Sure once you get it you have it for life but it's more of bothersome disease than anything else.Originally posted by sarah_webinc
2. The average person with herpes has 1 or 2 out breaks in their lifetime. Some rare case there are those that have more. And a herpes outbreak is usually during times when you are already sick, like with the flu, or under alot of stress.
3. When the last time I was at AIM I was told that the majority of people in the adult industry have it. (Like 80%) And that amongst the general populace it's close to 25% Given those statistics I won't worry until I hear about a herpes related death.
4. Condoms do absolutely shit to stop the spread of herpes.
5. People tend to talk about STDs like they are the end of the world. They are a sickness or infection or etc. like any other. They carry such a strong stigma with them because of the way they are contracted and because a bunch of right-wingers want us to feel that sex is dirty and scary.
I give a man oral without a perservatif and I rarely use them for regular sex too. In the end I probably run less health risks than a person that smokes.Comment
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Oh only a lifetimeOriginally posted by painintheass
A) It's still possible to spread hepres even if you don't think you are having an outbreak.2. The average person with herpes has 1 or 2 out breaks in their lifetime. Some rare case there are those that have more. And a herpes outbreak is usually during times when you are already sick, like with the flu, or under alot of stress.
B) I'm sure you of the mind that you should tell any potential partner BEFORE having sex with them that you have herpes. Good luck geting laid after that exchange
YOU: "Before we have sex I want to tell you I have herpes"
HER : "Well as long as you aren't having an ourbtreak"
YOU: "You can still get herpes even if you are not having an outbreak"
HER: "Well as long as you use a comdom"
YOU: "Condoms don't stop the herpes virus"
HER: "So basically if I fuck you I'll get herpes"
YOU: "Yeah, but it's not so bad"
HER: "Don't let the door hit you in the ass on your way out."Comment
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never use protection for anything!
this board is way too crowded, and the sooner a few of you die off the better.Comment
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hard to disagree as much as I tryOriginally posted by sumphatpimpComment
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Originally posted by GatorB
i luv mainstreamComment
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No, I use my mouth.
**bah dump bump**
Yes, I know it was bad. Blow me.War National Damn Champions EagleComment
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I don't get blowjobs from chicks I barely know, my girlfriend would kill me
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It takes me 20-30 minutes to get off when getting a good bj so......... no.
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Seeing as apx 25% of the population has herpes......Originally posted by GatorB
It is remotely possible to get herpes from a person that doesn't have an outbreak. But what you don't hear is that you are at greater risk of being in an airline accident then getting herpes from someone that is not showing any symptoms of an outbreak.
Hang on to your fears and ignorance. You be celebate and I'll enjoy my life.Comment
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Originally posted by painintheass
YOU are the ignorant one. AND by the way you post YOU obviously already have it you nasty fucker. Anyone that posts "herpes isn't so bad" is a retard pure and simple. And no 25% of the popualtion does NOT have herpes. Please post a link. And Herpes simplex 1 does not count. We are talking GENITAL herpes.Comment
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