Chatroom software designer sought

I am looking for someone that has the ability to not only
design a stable working chatroom, but also have the ability
to give the chatroom a bit of "flair" to make it stand out as well.
This chatroom will be a gay niche specific chatroom.
So I need someone with the ability to design with the "gay audience" in mind.

Items I definitely NEED in this include:
1)Ability to have pictures, text chat & audio.
2)Ability to hold at least 200 consecutive users
3)Go light on flash so a macromedia hosting service is not needed.
4)Designed with a gay "bent" (background, icons, etc)
5)Private messaging
6)Profiles
7)Banner placement space in main chat room
8)Ability to create seperate rooms by users
9)Ability to upload files/pics

A couple of software packages that I like, but don't have quite the look or
all the items I want include:
http://www.chatblazer.com/
http://www.chatessentials.com/
Taking a look at these will hopefully give the designer an idea of what
I'm trying to incorporate here.

If you think you can do this project in a reasonable amount of time,
get back to me. ijay333 AT yahoo dot com
with some examples of your work and price estimate as well.
Thanks!