Thanks for the feedback... took many of your comments and tweaked it.
http://www.bangedhousewives.com/maintour.php/11/7/A
1) The thumbs don't show a mouseover now which I think is WAY better
2) The video Kbps sizes for the thumbs are tweaked down which resulted in cutting the whole Flash piece in half (the thumbs are embedded FLVs) so this loads super fast now
3) The popup effect is less now at only 115% as opposed to 150%
Lets see how it converts now. We are in the process of putting all of our exclusive girls on our tours and if this format does well, you will see it launched on our other sites... And we are definitely going to try it on our galleries. Thanks again