I'm not sure if what I did is considered as cheating. My first boyfriend never even kissed me in the three years we were together, so when I lost my virginity (to a man who's now my husband) on a Danish strawberry farm, I didn't feel too bad. I realised that kid who I spent three years holding hands with was never my boyfriend
At least that was my excuse. The only thing I regret that I didn't break up with this boy before it all happened. That was the least I could have done for the guy.
In this relationship I never even think about having sex with other people. In fact, the thought of some random bloke - no matter how good-looking - touching me makes me very uncomfortable, probably because I've never had sex with anyone else than my husband.
Sex itself really isn't such a big deal for me. I can live without sex, but I can't live without love, affection and the feeling of being safe with someone. That's something only my partner can provide me. It's simply not worth risking for the sake of having sex with someone "new and exciting".
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Originally Posted by Halcyon
If you are going to stray, call your girls cell and break up first...no matter what time. Betraying someone you once (or still) cared about is a fucked up thing to do to someone's long term psyche.
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I have very little experience on relationships, but I agree with this one 100%