Is making out cheating?

**galleryseek** · 03-24-2005, 01:21 PM

#51 - The best answer to this thread

"Anything that you know your spouse would not want you to do with another person is cheating.

Besides, that is just trashy. Find yourself a real keeper and you WON'T want to act on those feelings."

-GallerySeek

**jawanda** · 03-24-2005, 01:24 PM

Would you be pissed/hurt if your girlfriend made out with another guy? Question answered.

-P

**viki** · 03-24-2005, 01:36 PM

Originally posted by mdcq

I got really pissed at my wife because she went to a club with some friends from work and made out with a girl she works with in the booth they were at. I guess what pissed me off so bad about it was not that she made out with her, it was that there were a few guys from her work were there and I didnt like the idea of them getting turned on by my wife kissing some girl and I wasnt there to lay claim to her, in a matter of speaking.

If it had been her kissing a man then that probably would have been the end of our marriage and possibly his life. Its a funny thing, a man will not take it as a threat if his woman kisses another woman, but if she kisses a man its a whole different thing. When you look at sexual situations like that you can see just how close to animals we still are, and our agressive, dominant, and territorial side will never be hidden no matter how civilized we believe ourselves to be.

I agree with you. I only kiss girls in front of my boyfriend. If he's not around, it's completely off limits. I live by this general rule: I don't do anything that I'd be afraid to tell him about the next day. For instance, I see girls that get drunk and sit on other guys lap's, jokingly flash them, etc. I would never do that no matter how drunk I got... and I've been put to the test many times. The trick is to find someone that you can trust 100%, and in turn you give them the ability to do the same for you.

**sonofsam** · 03-24-2005, 01:37 PM

of course its cheating....

**tre sandman** · 03-24-2005, 01:39 PM

if you dont fell guilty its cheating...or is it the other way around? now im confused

**Wiggles** · 03-24-2005, 01:52 PM

it is cheating, don't do it man!

**Nanda** · 03-24-2005, 02:02 PM

yes it is...

**Scootermuze** · 03-24-2005, 02:40 PM

Any time you focus intimacy, at any level, in a direction other than toward the person that you have told/shown that they are the only one, it's cheating..

**Deepai** · 03-24-2005, 02:44 PM

Originally posted by Kevsh

My standard for "cheating" is this: Would you tell feel comfortable telling your GF or spouse about it?

I dunno if thats a good measuring stick, with some people its impossible to tell them anything w/o them freaking out about it...

**INever** · 03-24-2005, 02:53 PM

It's not even sex...

I remember being in a long steamy session with a close non-monogamous friend where we were both panting and sweating and I finally came all over her tits. When things quieted down she asked me "Is what we just did sex?". I answered, "No, that was not sex".

So my answer is, no, if you are in Europe, Japan or Brazil, it is not cheating.

**sweet7** · 03-24-2005, 03:08 PM

what part were you making out with?

**Herb Kornfield** · 03-24-2005, 03:58 PM

Just swing, its much easier on the emotions and you get 75% more babes when you have a babe that can pickup chicks for her AND you to enjoy.

**Illicit** · 03-24-2005, 04:16 PM

Its only cheating if you get caught

**Trixie Racer** · 03-24-2005, 04:26 PM

Originally posted by galleryseek

Find yourself a real keeper and you WON'T want to act on those feelings.

That's not true for everyone. Monogamy isn't natural, just some people are better conditioned than others.

**ronaldo** · 03-24-2005, 04:32 PM

Originally posted by Trixie Racer

Monogamy isn't natural

Best point in this thread yet.

Find someone with whom you can come to an "Arrangement" with.

**Honez** · 03-24-2005, 04:40 PM

Originally posted by groovychick

Anything you do that you cannot tell your significant other is cheating - be it kissing, sex, ANYTHING - if you care about the other person - dont lie - it's bad for the relationship!

Agreed

**Jayo** · 03-24-2005, 04:44 PM

Id consider it cheating. If your significant other was making out with someone other than you, would you want that?

**Hunter_ST** · 03-24-2005, 04:53 PM

It depends on what your definition of "making out" is. Just ask Bill Clinton.

Is making out cheating?

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