Shit! That sucks so bad. Hope you will get it solved in one way or another
so the mother in law fucked up good and proper
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I did....Originally posted by Lord AgaJupz.. u posted this on Netpond..
http://www.netpond.com/showthread.php?s=&threadid=48160
"My life is FUCKED now
My girl has her mom on her back account where all of our money is and our car loan is at
her mom fell for a 419 scam that we warned her about and she swore she would not do it but she did
She ewnt in the hole 10g's
sence her mom is a co signer on the loan / account the bank froze our account
All of our savings = gone
all of our bill money = gone
more th an likely our car = GONE
her moms responce toa ll this " Why are you not being supportive of me ? "
WTF SHE FUCKED US OVER ... we have a god damn new born here and now we have no money to our name and gonna lose our car because of her stupid fucking greedy ass looking to get rich quick
i am on the brink of buying a pack of ciggaretes and a bottle of jack and saying fuck it"Comment
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jesus man.. sorry to hear that...i dont understand how even after you both warned her she still went off and did it... is she really that tarded?Comment
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You take the good, you take the bad, you take them both, and there you have the facts of life.Originally posted by JupZChrisAll of our savings = gone
all of our bill money = gone
more th an likely our car = GONE
i am on the brink of buying a pack of ciggaretes and a bottle of jack and saying fuck it
As for the bottle of jack, I recommend you do drink until it numbs the pain.Comment
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Wow, I'm sorry to hear about that, Chris. I have kids to care for myself and you know that I know how hard it is when you're trying your best in life and something or someone comes along and tries to make it even harder. You know I've been there (still struggling to recover), and I wouldn't wish that on ANYONE.
I hope you guys make it though this okay.Comment
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I'm not sure understand the scam that was pulled on the MIL. She was most likely conned into thinking that she had received more than $10k into the account, and so transferred $10k of that money out of the account. Then it turns out the $10k that went in didn't really go in. Maybe you still consider that stealing, but it was at least accidental "theft," the MIL didn't realize that the $10k she sent away didn't exist.Originally posted by PeachesWhy was the mother in law even TOUCHING your money? OK, she's on the account - my son's on my accounts too in case something happens to me he has access to my $$$ w/o having to deal with legal BS, but from what you've said, that money WAS NOT HERS! For all intents and purposes, your MIL stole that money from you. Time for her to start greeting folks at Walmart until she gets you paid back.
I wonder why she used her daughters account for this instead of her own account, unless she doesn't have her own bank account. That compounded the repercussions of her error.Comment
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not sure exactly what she was doing really havnt found out for sureOriginally posted by argI'm not sure understand the scam that was pulled on the MIL. She was most likely conned into thinking that she had received more than $10k into the account, and so transferred $10k of that money out of the account. Then it turns out the $10k that went in didn't really go in. Maybe you still consider that stealing, but it was at least accidental "theft," the MIL didn't realize that the $10k she sent away didn't exist.
I wonder why she used her daughters account for this instead of her own account, unless she doesn't have her own bank account. That compounded the repercussions of her error.
but what she was using her own bank accuont but all the bank accounts are tied together as my girl has had that account for the past 4 years .. she goti t when she was 16 and her mom had to co sign on it and we just never took her mom off
the bank froze all the accounts and has taken the money to recoupe what they lost
they have told us already the money is gone
nothing we can doa bout that
we gotta wait tell monday to " talk " about our loan as her parents are not longer going to be with the bank and they are the co signers and no longer have good standing credit with them
so we are hoping that sence we have paid on time every time for the past year and a half they wont pull our loanComment
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what the fuck does my posting have to do with anything?Originally posted by SwordFishMaybe you shouldn't be spending 16 hours a day posting on message boards?
I hardly am around on the boards anymore
I WORK
most of my post where generated when i was a paid to post sig whore and I admit that
you dont fucking know me bro
go troll someone else you fucking dolt.Comment
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JupZ.....if your payments on the loan are current they can't take your car.
Doesn't matter if the co-signer died, was thrown in a nigerian prison, or whatever.....as long as your payments are current then you're living up to your end of the contract and they have to live up to theirs.
If the bank tries to tell you different call your state attorney's office.sig too bigComment
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the contract that we signed says that the co signer has to be able to make the payment in event that we can not or they will take the colateral we put downOriginally posted by Lenny2JupZ.....if your payments on the loan are current they can't take your car.
Doesn't matter if the co-signer died, was thrown in a nigerian prison, or whatever.....as long as your payments are current then you're living up to your end of the contract and they have to live up to theirs.
If the bank tries to tell you different call your state attorney's office.
the colateral will be gone now with everything that happend and the co signer doesnt havea penny nowComment
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So make sure you make the payment and they cannot take the car. Unless you are already late on payments?Originally posted by JupZChristhe contract that we signed says that the co signer has to be able to make the payment in event that we can not or they will take the colateral we put down
the colateral will be gone now with everything that happend and the co signer doesnt havea penny now
When you co-sign on a loan it is a contract between the lender, the inital borrower and the co signer. If the inital borrower cannot pay the debt then the co signer is called upon. Not the other way around.
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that is what we are waiting on to find outOriginally posted by HeadlessSo make sure you make the payment and they cannot take the car. Unless you are already late on payments?
When you co-sign on a loan it is a contract between the lender, the inital borrower and the co signer. If the inital borrower cannot pay the debt then the co signer is called upon. Not the other way around.

we are up to date on payments and havnt missed one
but they froze the accoutn and took all the money out we had for the bills
the money is not an issue - i can get the money to pay it all back
its just waiting for the bank to tell us what they are going to do
so i really cant say anything other than all i am doing is waitng to see what the bank is gonna sayComment
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Why did they freeze the account? Did your mother in law give the scammer access too it or did she just write checks she cant cash?Originally posted by JupZChristhat is what we are waiting on to find out
we are up to date on payments and havnt missed one
but they froze the accoutn and took all the money out we had for the bills
the money is not an issue - i can get the money to pay it all back
its just waiting for the bank to tell us what they are going to do
so i really cant say anything other than all i am doing is waitng to see what the bank is gonna sayComment
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no clue on the detailsOriginally posted by HeadlessWhy did they freeze the account? Did your mother in law give the scammer access too it or did she just write checks she cant cash?
Her parents had a few grand in the bank and she wrote checks I belive
i think it was a total of 12,000 something
amost 13,000 to this guy
as she is a co signer on my girls account they took the money from our account and froze it
the bank has yet to tell us anything other than the fact that the money is gone and they will contact us to talk about the other issues once they are readyComment
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Dude that makes absolutely no sense. Either the bank you deal with is fucking ass backwards or somethings up.Originally posted by JupZChrisno clue on the details
Her parents had a few grand in the bank and she wrote checks I belive
i think it was a total of 12,000 something
amost 13,000 to this guy
as she is a co signer on my girls account they took the money from our account and froze it
the bank has yet to tell us anything other than the fact that the money is gone and they will contact us to talk about the other issues once they are readyComment
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as I have said repeadly in this thread i DO NOT Know all the detailsOriginally posted by HeadlessDude that makes absolutely no sense. Either the bank you deal with is fucking ass backwards or somethings up.
I woke up to this msg
The bank can NOT tell us anything other than what I have said in this thread
Until they look more into it.Comment
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That's really bad news mate. But you're an intelligent fellow and will eventually get over that obstacle. I'm sorry for your trouble.
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Check your ICQ Chris - Marie is trying to contact you.Left intentionally blank ... just like my brainComment
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Very interesting read and sounds like a lot of fun to bait these guys.Originally posted by JOKEREMPIRE
Did you see the number of posts in the forum? http://www.419eater.com/forum/
But if the Nigerian goverment were serious about catching these criminla it would be easy, they will turn up to the airport with a notice saying who they are. Probably Nigeria looks at it as a dollar earner.Comment
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Send me your epassporte account ID so I can send you a little $ for support in these trying times. Hang in there!Comment
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Shitty deal dude... but I laugh like hell everytime I get one of those scam letters from Nigerian princesses, wondering what kind of idiot would ever fall for that.
But she's your girlfriends mom... she fucked herself over too, probably more so than you. You have to be supportive. Think about it this way... if she hadn't co-signed you wouldn't have had anything to start with.
Live an learn.Comment
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If the people that fell for these scams weren't such idiots, there would be no problems... Scammers have been making money of the intellectually challenged for centuries.Originally posted by charlyVery interesting read and sounds like a lot of fun to bait these guys.
Did you see the number of posts in the forum? http://www.419eater.com/forum/
But if the Nigerian goverment were serious about catching these criminla it would be easy, they will turn up to the airport with a notice saying who they are. Probably Nigeria looks at it as a dollar earner.Comment
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Ignore the trolls... this guy's probably never made more than $10k a year in his life.Originally posted by BoNgHiTtADamn I am sorry you are poor. Maybe you could work for a living, instead of trying to do the 'webmaster' thing. I mean, 10k to wipe you out might mean your just not on that fast path to success.
Know what I mean?Comment
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Don't blame anyone but yourself...
- You KNEW she was gonna do this, since you said you TRIED to stop her.
- Why on earth does your girlfriendss mother have access to your bank account? Giving bank access to your girlfriend is stupid enough already?!
I hope you at least learned a lesson from this. Don't trust anyone
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sad to hear. Maybe now you wil take a bank account or loan without anyone else co signing. Do it your self. Unbelievable that people still fall for the 419 scam. Then you must be one stupid MF.
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sorry to hear that Chris, might be a smart move to get rid of her as co-accountholder now. Hope you get back on your feet soon man.Media Buyer - Sell me your traffic!
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