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fatal attraction · 05-11-2005, 10:13 PM

Ok, I was married for 10 years, been divorced for 5 years. My ex husband is still my best friend, I see him every day, talk to him a few times a day.....So, lately, I've been thinking about us. I think he has been too. I have no idea about approaching the subject! Any ideas/advice??????? My best friend, tells me it's a terrible idea, you can't go back. But yet, we are always there for each other!

Thomas1007 · 05-11-2005, 10:27 PM

bad idea.
sure the first real love is "special" but there had to be reasons the relationship ended. Have those things changed? Will they happen again?
ya cant turn back the clock but the memories of better days make things seem alot less damaging over time.

Sosa · 05-11-2005, 10:34 PM

you got divorced for a reason right..

fatal attraction · 05-11-2005, 10:37 PM

The reasons things ended was a violent teenager from hell! I had to get my son and I both out of that situation! My husband wouldn't sleep some nights because he was afraid she would try to kill me. Sounds abit extreme, but about a week after I left, her best friend tortured and killed her mother. Sent chills up my spine!
It's just been so long, I don't know how to go about this? And don't want our son to know in case, it doesn't work

fatal attraction · 05-11-2005, 11:17 PM

I'm off to bed, trying to decide if I'll be waiting for him in bed tomorrow at lunch! Since I have a key to his house, I was there today waiting for his big screen tv to be delivered! EEK, this is a hard one to figure out!

reynold · 05-12-2005, 01:24 AM

try to weigh things first. It is really hard to decide on that one.

05-11-2005, 10:13 PM	#1
fatal attraction Confirmed User Join Date: Feb 2003 Location: where ever he is! Posts: 6,522	I need some advice on this one! Ok, I was married for 10 years, been divorced for 5 years. My ex husband is still my best friend, I see him every day, talk to him a few times a day.....So, lately, I've been thinking about us. I think he has been too. I have no idea about approaching the subject! Any ideas/advice??????? My best friend, tells me it's a terrible idea, you can't go back. But yet, we are always there for each other!

05-11-2005, 10:27 PM	#2
Thomas1007 Confirmed User Join Date: Aug 2002 Location: BC Canada Posts: 5,542	bad idea. sure the first real love is "special" but there had to be reasons the relationship ended. Have those things changed? Will they happen again? ya cant turn back the clock but the memories of better days make things seem alot less damaging over time. __________________ BUY THIS SPOT CONTACT ME FOR DETAILS Contact Email

05-11-2005, 10:34 PM	#3
Sosa In Tushy Land Join Date: Oct 2002 Location: Nebraska Posts: 40,149	you got divorced for a reason right..

05-11-2005, 10:37 PM	#4
fatal attraction Confirmed User Join Date: Feb 2003 Location: where ever he is! Posts: 6,522	The reasons things ended was a violent teenager from hell! I had to get my son and I both out of that situation! My husband wouldn't sleep some nights because he was afraid she would try to kill me. Sounds abit extreme, but about a week after I left, her best friend tortured and killed her mother. Sent chills up my spine! It's just been so long, I don't know how to go about this? And don't want our son to know in case, it doesn't work

05-11-2005, 11:17 PM	#5
fatal attraction Confirmed User Join Date: Feb 2003 Location: where ever he is! Posts: 6,522	I'm off to bed, trying to decide if I'll be waiting for him in bed tomorrow at lunch! Since I have a key to his house, I was there today waiting for his big screen tv to be delivered! EEK, this is a hard one to figure out!

05-12-2005, 01:24 AM	#6
reynold Too lazy to set a custom title Join Date: Oct 2002 Location: Global Traveler Posts: 51,271	try to weigh things first. It is really hard to decide on that one.