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MoneyWorks 11-29-2002 11:22 AM

Girl Friend Problems.. =(.....
 
yo guys i been with my GF for almost 3 yearrs.. and we just broke up yesterday.... i am fucking feeling like shit =), what do i have to do......

no fucking jokes come on....... if so FUck you to :feels-hot

pink_in_the_middle 11-29-2002 11:27 AM

I'm sorry to hear that :(

Care to tell us the whole story,it'll give us a better understand of why you two broke up.

Maybe we can help :)


p.s I know you prolly don't want to hear this right now but...when two ppl break up they always feel like shit but they get over it. Everything takes time.

RaiDeN 11-29-2002 11:29 AM

Heya,

Sorry to hear that bro,

Im used to breaking up with girls. I had 3 times 2.5 years.

The best thing i always did was going back to the gyms, go out, fuck a lot of other girls, and hang out with your friend a lot.

Whatever you do , dont get drunk alone.... that will fuck you up..


take care,
RaiDeN

KRL 11-29-2002 11:30 AM

Why'd you break up? Who broke up with who? Fill us in.

It sucks but believe me after decades of experience, everything happens with relationships for a purpose. Some last a long time, some go a short time. You have fun, have love, have fights, get bored with each other, then the sizzle starts to fizzle when its time to move on.

There is always someone else waiting to come into your life though. So look out for that special new love soon to cross paths with you.

All the heart and gut wrenching pain of losing a lover fades with time.

suesheboy 11-29-2002 11:32 AM

Quote:

Originally posted by RaiDeN
Whatever you do , dont get drunk alone.... that will fuck you up..

Good advice

MoneyWorks 11-29-2002 11:35 AM

first we started going out she gave me a fucking hard time...... at a club I saw her dancing with another guy (first month) and then slowly it got better..... Before that I would always cheat on girls, but not her. Then more shit happened, and I could not take it any more so I told her to change or to get the fuck out.. =), so she did change, but I never seem to be able to trust her any more........ then it all got worse again, we didn't seem to get along no more, but we were just to afraid I guess to brake up, and yesterday it happened.

:321GFY

GTS Mark 11-29-2002 11:36 AM

Go to http://www.askmen.com

There are tons of good articles there on getting over relationships.

Don't worry you will get over this and feel better in time.

DH

[Labret] 11-29-2002 11:36 AM

Dont trust women. Thats what got you in this situation to begin with.

MoneyWorks 11-29-2002 11:36 AM

Quote:

Originally posted by RaiDeN
Heya,

Sorry to hear that bro,

Im used to breaking up with girls. I had 3 times 2.5 years.

The best thing i always did was going back to the gyms, go out, fuck a lot of other girls, and hang out with your friend a lot.

Whatever you do , dont get drunk alone.... that will fuck you up..


take care,
RaiDeN


yo thx....... fuck... i would never think there is people on the net who really care lol =)......................

Rep 11-29-2002 11:37 AM

Same thing happened to me recently with a girl I had been with for 2 years. Surround yourself with friends and stick it out for a few months and eventually it will get better. Take the oppourtunity to do something that makes you happy like a vacation for a few days where you can be away from the things that remind you of her.

When all else fails, I just pretend she's dead. I would recommend the same.

Rep 11-29-2002 11:38 AM

Quote:

Originally posted by [Labret]
Dont trust women. Thats what got you in this situation to begin with.
Labret, you're absolutely right.

EscortBiz 11-29-2002 11:39 AM

So many nice girls out there, it will take another girl to make you forget about her so just go and pick one up

MoneyWorks 11-29-2002 11:40 AM

Quote:

Originally posted by [Labret]
Dont trust women. Thats what got you in this situation to begin with.



Fucking bithces i am telling you.... they have their own fucking world in their fucking head, and they don't understand nothing you tell him. fuck!!! you have to explain in their own language =),
and Some are soo stupid they keep diaries of what happen, to them everyday, even if they cheating on some one, they would still write it there...

well its hard, but I will try to do what you guys told me.. =)

kmanrox 11-29-2002 11:40 AM

what i always do, is i put The Bible in the CD player and listen... for real.....


The BiBle According to Too $hort.... listen to all his CD's listen to the lyrics, and it always makes me feel better and like a rejuvenated man... and i mean this in all honesty, i always recommend it to my friends and it always works for me....

but if you would have just listened to Snoop in the first place, 'We Dont love dem hoes' you wouldnt need to listen to Shortie the Pimp!!

ya aint know, you betta axe sumbuddy!

MoneyWorks 11-29-2002 11:41 AM

And again I appreciate it very much, its like a fucking big family here =)?. haha

:thumbsup

AM Jeff 11-29-2002 11:41 AM

Well..I know how you feel.

I know you don't wanna hear this.
But maybe she just felt it wasn't going where she hoped or didn't have the same feelings.

If thats the case..there is nothing you can do except give her time and her SPACE.
If there is a chance...you have to give her that time and space.

She will either come around or keep on going.

If she keeps on going..its not meant to be.

Just be glad it happened now and not after you guys get married and it ends in divorce.

Yeah..I know its painful..
Been there myself.
We ALL have.


:)

MoneyWorks 11-29-2002 11:42 AM

Quote:

Originally posted by kmanrox
what i always do, is i put The Bible in the CD player and listen... for real.....


The BiBle According to Too $hort.... listen to all his CD's listen to the lyrics, and it always makes me feel better and like a rejuvenated man... and i mean this in all honesty, i always recommend it to my friends and it always works for me....

but if you would have just listened to Snoop in the first place, 'We Dont love dem hoes' you wouldnt need to listen to Shortie the Pimp!!

ya aint know, you betta axe sumbuddy!

ahhhhhhhhh shit =) u write bro, i should listen to that song again.......... "we dont love dem hoes" :1orglaugh :1orglaugh

quiet 11-29-2002 11:42 AM

breakups suck bigtime.

i have no advice - other than try to concentrate more on your business. that's what i did...

MoneyWorks 11-29-2002 11:45 AM

Quote:

Originally posted by AM Jeff
Well..I know how you feel.

I know you don't wanna hear this.
But maybe she just felt it wasn't going where she hoped or didn't have the same feelings.

If thats the case..there is nothing you can do except give her time and her SPACE.
If there is a chance...you have to give her that time and space.

She will either come around or keep on going.

If she keeps on going..its not meant to be.

Just be glad it happened now and not after you guys get married and it ends in divorce.

Yeah..I know its painful..
Been there myself.
We ALL have.


:)







The problem is i can't seeee HER WITH ANOTHER GUY!!!!! FUCK THAT WOULD JUST KILL ME!!!! LOL


MY FRIEND HAD THE SAME PROBLEM AND HE SAW HIS GIRL FRIEND AFTER 2 MONTHS KISSING SOME GUY, HE RAN AND BET THE SHIT OUT OF HIM. I am telling you the guy just feel to the grown like he fell from a 10 story building.... fuck!!

the bad news my friend went to jail... for two weeks came out not long ago

[Labret] 11-29-2002 11:46 AM

Quote:

Originally posted by MoneyWorks





Fucking bithces i am telling you.... they have their own fucking world in their fucking head, and they don't understand nothing you tell him. fuck!!! you have to explain in their own language =),
and Some are soo stupid they keep diaries of what happen, to them everyday, even if they cheating on some one, they would still write it there...

well its hard, but I will try to do what you guys told me.. =)

The first time you saw her getting up on a guy in a club in front of you, you should have just dropped her.

You cant make a whore a housewife.

MoneyWorks 11-29-2002 11:47 AM

what should i do if i see her with another guy??. i mean i don't know if i would snap (which i do all the time) or i would be able to hold my self down.......

i don't care how big the guy is its just i don't want to go to jail :(

salsbury 11-29-2002 11:47 AM

violence.

it doesn't sound like this relationship was very healthy for you, if it's making you feel like hurting someone else over it. treasure what you had and accept what parts of it made you a better person, and move on.

MoneyWorks 11-29-2002 11:47 AM

Quote:

Originally posted by [Labret]


The first time you saw her getting up on a guy in a club in front of you, you should have just dropped her.

You cant make a whore a housewife.

I just thought i could change something...... :(

MoneyWorks 11-29-2002 11:50 AM

Quote:

Originally posted by salsbury
violence.

it doesn't sound like this relationship was very healthy for you, if it's making you feel like hurting someone else over it. treasure what you had and accept what parts of it made you a better person, and move on.

seriously fuck, i got in to the bigest fight becasue of her...... this is what happened, and by the way i am not rasist in any way!!.

to make the long story short 8 black guys and 4 of us. lets just say i was very lucky and they weren't as much....

MoneyWorks 11-29-2002 11:51 AM

So what should i do, if i see her with another guy???:(

AM Jeff 11-29-2002 11:53 AM

MoneyWorks...

I know it'll be hard.
He'll...your bound to run into her sooner or later.

You have 2 choices.

Either remember the good times you had with her and be grateful you were in her life and had a chance.

Or

Sit around and well on it.

Dude...you never know.
You'll find someone that will make her look like nothing.

Once when you do..you'll think..
Damn..and all this worring over nothing.

Think of it this way....

Maybe it just didn't work out for now.
But who is to say what may happen 2, 5 or 10 years down the road?
You may be together then.

Maybe she needs this time to sort things out for herself and feeling towards you.

It'll be a good growing peroid for both you and her.

I know its hard..but its life.

Oh..and don't do what your buddy did.
Thats foolish and immature.

If you happen to see her..either turn away or just be her friend.

Good luck..
:thumbsup

[Labret] 11-29-2002 11:53 AM

Quote:

Originally posted by MoneyWorks
So what should i do, if i see her with another guy???:(
Tell the guy she gave you vd and that she is a major slut.

And if he tries to be Mr. Gallant and protect his new found "love", beat him. Severely.

blazin 11-29-2002 11:54 AM

Forget about her and celebrate. Sounds like she was too much trouble in the first place.
If a lady behaved like that with me in the first month I definitely would not give her my heart. (but no one gets that anyhow)

Don't get me wrong - I'd still f**k her for as long as she'd let me but thats it.

Right now you should concentrate on yourself - and enjoy the joy's of being a single man :)

-=HUNGRYMAN=- 11-29-2002 11:54 AM

Quote:

Originally posted by DrinkingHard
Go to http://www.askmen.com

There are tons of good articles there on getting over relationships.

Don't worry you will get over this and feel better in time.

DH

I prefer www.askmeni.com :winkwink:

AM Jeff 11-29-2002 11:54 AM

haha..don't listen to Labret

haha....your gonna get the poor guy in deep shit...lmaoooo

blazin 11-29-2002 11:56 AM

Quote:

Originally posted by [Labret]


Tell the guy she gave you vd and that she is a major slut.


Did she give you VD? :)

MoneyWorks 11-29-2002 11:57 AM

lol!!!!!..... OK ok ok ..... the big problem i just can't picture her Fucking another guy!! there!! lol,

because well ummmmmmm she was my first..:BangBang: :(

MoneyWorks 11-29-2002 11:58 AM

Quote:

Originally posted by blazin


Did she give you VD? :)


VD?? whats that?

MoneyWorks 11-29-2002 11:59 AM

Quote:

Originally posted by AM Jeff
MoneyWorks...

I know it'll be hard.
He'll...your bound to run into her sooner or later.

You have 2 choices.

Either remember the good times you had with her and be grateful you were in her life and had a chance.

Or

Sit around and well on it.

Dude...you never know.
You'll find someone that will make her look like nothing.

Once when you do..you'll think..
Damn..and all this worring over nothing.

Think of it this way....

Maybe it just didn't work out for now.
But who is to say what may happen 2, 5 or 10 years down the road?
You may be together then.

Maybe she needs this time to sort things out for herself and feeling towards you.

It'll be a good growing peroid for both you and her.

I know its hard..but its life.

Oh..and don't do what your buddy did.
Thats foolish and immature.

If you happen to see her..either turn away or just be her friend.

Good luck..
:thumbsup


i will try bro, thx

TDF 11-29-2002 11:59 AM

spam her name and number across the net

[Labret] 11-29-2002 11:59 AM

Quote:

Originally posted by MoneyWorks


because well ummmmmmm she was my first..:BangBang: :(


ahhhhhhhhhhh

MoneyWorks 11-29-2002 12:00 PM

Quote:

Originally posted by -=HUNGRYMAN=-


I prefer www.askmeni.com :winkwink:


that shit is good =)... .........www.askmeni.com

MoneyWorks 11-29-2002 12:01 PM

Quote:

Originally posted by toodamnfli
spam her name and number across the net





i thought about it!!!!! lol... but i can't

blazin 11-29-2002 12:03 PM

Quote:

Originally posted by MoneyWorks



VD?? whats that?


If your dick looks like this:

http://www.dermis.net/doia/image.asp...6&diagnr=54111

Then you've got VD :)

KRL 11-29-2002 12:04 PM

People don't change. Once a snake always a snake. Just blow it off and get excited about finding the next girl in your life.

When you get to your 40's, like me, you'll look back at all your girls and think what the fuck was I so upset about. They'll all just be good or bad memories.

I used to the jeolous type. I don't even care about that crap anymore. If you're with someone and they start doing the stuff that makes most guys wigged out, so what, big deal. Fuck you wanna go fuck some other guy, great go have fun. If you need to do that so be it. What the fuck, we act like we own people half the time. We don't. I've come to the conclusion for some girls and guys its just natural to do the stuff that gets their partner jealous. I've learned to live with it. My ex wife worked in the corporate world and traveled all the time and I know she played around on her trips and it didn't bother me at all. That's part of being married to a good looking girl. Guys are going to hit on them and you can't be a watch dog and get yourself all neurotic worrying what they are doing 24/7.

There's 3 billion woman on this planet and plenty single ones to go around. Next! :)

[Labret] 11-29-2002 12:05 PM

Great site!

http://www.dermis.net/doia/image.asp...diagnr=54111#0

MoneyWorks 11-29-2002 12:05 PM

NMOO!!!!!!!!!!!!@!!!!!! yo guy knock knock konck on wood.. never ... NO VD!!!!!!! ewwww:1orglaugh :1orglaugh

blazin 11-29-2002 12:07 PM

Quote:

Originally posted by [Labret]
Great site!

http://www.dermis.net/doia/image.asp...diagnr=54111#0

Just look at what your missing out on.

Now ain't you glad its over

MoneyWorks 11-29-2002 12:08 PM

Quote:

Originally posted by KRL
People don't change. Once a snake always a snake. Just blow it off and get excited about finding the next girl in your life.

When you get to your 40's, like me, you'll look back at all your girls and think what the fuck was I so upset about. They'll all just be good or bad memories.

I used to the jeolous type. I don't even care about that crap anymore. If you're with someone and they start doing the stuff that makes most guys wigged out, so what, big deal. Fuck you wanna go fuck some other guy, great go have fun. If you need to do that so be it. What the fuck, we act like we own people half the time. We don't. I've come to the conclusion for some girls and guys its just natural to do the stuff that gets their partner jealous. I've learned to live with it. My ex wife worked in the corporate world and traveled all the time and I know she played around on her trips and it didn't bother me at all. That's part of being married to a good looking girl. Guys are going to hit on them and you can't be a watch dog and get yourself all neurotic worrying what they are doing 24/7.

There's 3 billion woman on this planet and plenty single ones to go around. Next! :)



shit, you guys should charge me for every msg you put on... lol... i am getting to feel so much better with all you guys helping me.

MoneyWorks 11-29-2002 12:09 PM

Quote:

Originally posted by blazin


Just look at what your missing out on.

Now ain't you glad its over

yo, thats not right!..... :glugglug

Herb Kornfield 11-29-2002 12:12 PM

Dont worry about her being yoru first and feeling that lovin feeling and now not having it and breaking up.

If people are meant to be together and in love and all that hearts and flowers that we all see, then they wouldnt break up in the 1st place.

There are many more women out there to date, be friends with, or just have as a fuck buddy...why not have fun?, your only young once and might as well have fun, experience life and see as much as you can now, cause, one day, we wil all be old men and women and you dont want to live a life of "I should have's".

The holidays are especailly a drag when single cause, its all about togetherness and love and all that shit, which is nice, but you have a tremendous advantage, There are a lot of single babes that are looking for love as well.....

Hit the clubs, hang with your buddies, get stoned, drink booze and party like its 1999. What do you have to loose?.....is sitting at home being bored fun?...

have a good time and get some strange, you'll forget all about that old one.

lates,

Herb K

MoneyWorks 11-29-2002 12:13 PM

Quote:

Originally posted by Rep
Same thing happened to me recently with a girl I had been with for 2 years. Surround yourself with friends and stick it out for a few months and eventually it will get better. Take the oppourtunity to do something that makes you happy like a vacation for a few days where you can be away from the things that remind you of her.

When all else fails, I just pretend she's dead. I would recommend the same.

hmmmm how about if i hire someone to kill her?:Graucho??...

ummm bad idea i think, casue then people would know who did it... DAAAAAAAAAAaaa..

pink_in_the_middle 11-29-2002 12:15 PM

Quote:

Originally posted by MoneyWorks
lol!!!!!..... OK ok ok ..... the big problem i just can't picture her Fucking another guy!! there!! lol,

because well ummmmmmm she was my first..:BangBang: :(

Firsts usually never last.
You need to explore with other ppl I think.
It seems like you only want her because you can't stand the thought of someone else having her. And thats not a good relationship.

MoneyWorks 11-29-2002 12:15 PM

Quote:

Originally posted by Herb Kornfield
Dont worry about her being yoru first and feeling that lovin feeling and now not having it and breaking up.

If people are meant to be together and in love and all that hearts and flowers that we all see, then they wouldnt break up in the 1st place.

There are many more women out there to date, be friends with, or just have as a fuck buddy...why not have fun?, your only young once and might as well have fun, experience life and see as much as you can now, cause, one day, we wil all be old men and women and you dont want to live a life of "I should have's".

The holidays are especailly a drag when single cause, its all about togetherness and love and all that shit, which is nice, but you have a tremendous advantage, There are a lot of single babes that are looking for love as well.....

Hit the clubs, hang with your buddies, get stoned, drink booze and party like its 1999. What do you have to loose?.....is sitting at home being bored fun?...

have a good time and get some strange, you'll forget all about that old one.

lates,

Herb K


yeah clubs, boozs!!!!! ohh i have 3 bottles of Vodka in my freezer hahah, get some pussy's and it is good!!!! =-).....

MoneyWorks 11-29-2002 12:16 PM

Quote:

Originally posted by pink_in_the_middle


Firsts usually never last.
You need to explore with other ppl I think.
It seems like you only want her because you can't stand the thought of someone else having her. And thats not a good relationship.

thats probably it i think... =)...


i just can't seem to get over it if she finds someone!!. fuck.. is it the same thing when i find someone too??:)


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