Did Your Mom Beat The Shit Out OF You When You Were Young ?
 

Yes, my mom did beat the shit out of me when i was young, even over a little thing, she put everything on ME when she got mad :(
I screamed like a motherfucker but she kept beating ...........

I had a shitty childhood.

I never want my kid grow up that way.

Not beat the shit out of me but I was hit around a bit and am thankful cause that brought me up right (except that I work in porn LOL)

I had a bad ass tough guy biker step dad that beat me every day.

He got his on his harley when a taxi clipped him and killed him on the spot.

Childhood is shitty for most and nice for others.

I was only once slapped by my father, it was a second after I slapped my sister. Nothing other than that one...

Damn straight childhood does suck. My parents didnt beat me, but my dad did punch me in the nose. :winkwink:

Childhood is what you spend the rest of your life getting over. :thumbsup

most AZN parents beat the shit out of their kids not only because they want their kids to be good, but also because the kids don't do what they want (like wash dishes, cooking etc) , they got mad at work, finacial problems..........

Fuck, if I can make law in the East, I'd put them all to jail .

Nope, she let me dad do the dirty work.

Boot, belt, branch, fist, whatever.

But I deserved it, trust me.

my mom slapped me (but that's not enuf for her) , using sticks (big ones) , branches, etc...whatever she can grab around.....to use as a weapon to beat me and my older brother. I was bleeding all the time.

Whats wrong with porn?

:1orglaugh

That's some fuct up shit. Personally I'm going to try and raise my kids in a better environment than what I grew up in. But unless your parents are complete asses I suppose that was their intention to at some point, wonder what goes wrong?

I'll tell you what though, I get pissed at people who had normal childhoods, you know the ones that are mentally well balanced and don't have issues. :321GFY

Everyone has issues. I had a very good childhood only got smacked a few times by my dad, but believe me that hurt like hell.

I feel sorry a bit for people that got abused and grow up to think that was somehow ok or good for them. I have never laid my hand on either of my kids and I want my tombstone to say 'He never hit his kids'.

And you know what? They still respect me, not 'in spite' of it but because of it!

Were the sticks made of bamboo? Did she swear at you too?

I was never hit --- EVER

Where was your real dad?

My childhood was good.

My mom is :cool-as-a .

As soon as I started making sites I told her and she was just like "In Canada you can't make Beasality, Child Porn, and I think some forms of hardcore anal sites"

Hehe that's cool. My mom is strangely supportive of what I do too, and she's a 70+ year old lady. Then again she has never seen any of the sites I've built :winkwink:

my childhood was good. Only a cople of times my dad smacked me for being an asshole haha. other then that it was all good

Yngwie

I got a lot of really solid beatings when I was a kid. I come from a kind of conservative family, but like a lot of conservatives there was a lot of crap going on behind the scenes, I got fiddled with and more (like sodomized) by several male relatives, my uncles/ stepfather etc. It sucked but if I fought back I just got a mean hiding, with belts etc so I just had to put up and make the best I could of it. I reckon I actually turned out alright all things considered, except for an interest in hardcore pornography and some deviant sexual practices lol.

The problem with your story is these kind of practices often get passed down right along in the family, as victims try to rationalize this behaviour they often end up imitating it. I hope you have the strength to end it in your line. I mean as it applies to incestual rape not the hardcore pornography =)

... yes ... her favourite was THE COOKING SPOON ... and hell yeah ... I deserved it.

... I sworn to god that I´d never do it to my kids ... so far 3 years without a slap ... and I am proud of it !

Yeah, my mom beated me up. But I'm not bitter, I was a fucking brat. :)

Why were you being a brat?

I have a bad personality. I liked to do everything she told me not to. Steal from her wallet, lie to her and so forth. Good times.

I'm from the south, getting an ass whooping is just another part of the culture... mostly deserved, though I didn't get too many.

My son hasn't gotten one in awhile, but I am not going to say he's never been up for and gotten one.

Used regularly I don't think it deters anything. But just like the occasional soap in the mouth or the grounding from everything for a week, it tends to shock children into submission and into paying attention.

When I was about 16 I punched my dad in the face cause he was drunk and was talking shit to my mom.

My dad was such a prick to my brother one time he took a knife and cut his hand open then had to drive him to hospital for stitches...funnily enough the relationship got much better after that.

Fucking families.

KK stop it with the teasing :winkwink:

I can almost see Kimmykim in a shock trooper uniform

NO

NOPE,NEVER!

nope

same did my brother when he was 17.

my father did never ever drink any alcohol again since then.
it was in 1991.

and no. i never ever got beaten either. my mom is really one of the best ones you can imagine :thumbsup

:helpme

I got the shit beat out of me by my dad.

Of course, half the people don't get decent discipline anyways...

If you are asian, chances are you had a rough childhood.

When I first moved to Philadelphia when I was 7, I got jumped at school and had my ass whooped.

I came home crying, I got my ass whooped again for losing by my mom.

Defining moment in my life, really unfair that your parents can do stupid shit like that too you. For a long time I would get into a fight and I would lose control and will do anthing to beat the living shit out of the other person. The past 4 years has mellowed me down.

my mom beat the hell outta me! and it was defiantely for the better. if i didn't know that she would whoop on my ass i would be in jail by now! haha! it's called discipline, more parents need to learn how to distribute it. now mind you, this wasn't abusive beatings, this was me fucking up and getting my ass whooped. thanks mom, i'm not in jail now because of you. :winkwink:

back in the day
it was ok if you moms beat the crap outta ya

I think probably everyone over the age of 22 or so got some good ass beating growing up.

if you are 21 you might have gotten the tail end of the beatings

Read the book "A Child called "IT" " by David Pelzer

Short Description
David J. Pelzer's mother, Catherine Roerva, was, he writes in this ghastly, fascinating memoir, a devoted den mother to the Cub Scouts in her care but not to David, her son, whom she referred to as "an It". This book is a brief, horrifying account of the bizarre tortures she inflicted on him, told from the point of view of the author as a young boy being starved, stabbed, smashed face-first into mirrors, forced to eat the contents of his sibling's diapers and a spoonful of ammonia, and burned over a gas stove by a maniacal, alcoholic mom. Sometimes she claimed he had violated some rule--no walking on the grass at school--but mostly it was pure sadism. Inexplicably, his father didn't protect him; only an alert schoolteacher saved David. One wants to learn more about his ordeal and its aftermath, and now he's written a sequel,The Lost Boy, detailing his life in the foster-care system.

I bought this book a few months ago...it's extremly disturbing...:(

Mine allways hada big fucking belt on the back of the bathroom door. I think she left it there just to fuck with me. Every time i took a shit or shower i saw it hanging there. Im not even going to talk about dad:thefinger

Well my mom tried beating me, but then I became bigger than her and would fight back.

Yeah Mom beat my ass but I beat her ass, she called the cops on me, I called them on her, she took my car and I stole her car etc. etc. etc...

Nothing unusual with my childhood :-) Pretty mild in comparison to others *shrug*

Filipino mothers don't give a fuck. My mom is 5 foot tall, I'm 6 foot. She would get up on a chair to smack me. hahahaha.

Luc, my mom is chinese... super strict parenting, she'd beat the shit out of me with anything she could find too.. slap my face, hit me with broom handles, rulers, all that shit, but i had enough respect to never say anything back to her.
She used to get mad about lots of stupid shit, I don't blame her for being so strict.. my grandfather was a general in the nationalist army of china, he must have been super strict to his children.

She would get my dad to beat the fuck out of me too when she didn't think she was hurting me enough to get her point across.. i suppose my parents were just older, old fashioned.
FUck it tho... i don't really regret any of that..

i would never hit my kids... i would be a completely different parent to them..

oh man the wooden cooking spoon.. that thing hurt like hell, i tried to hide that thing so many fucking times, but they always found a way to make me hurt the same...

fuck wat a shit childhood
when i was like 13 my dad decided my family was just a liabilty and divorced my mom..that shit went on for like 4 years and me and my bro stuck in the middle, of course i got moved to another city with my mom while my bro stayed home with my dad

my mom would take all her anger and frustration out on me during this whole fuckin time.. i got accused of telling court shit to my dad all the time, that was fucking hell.. i was suicidal from that so upset, getting into fuckloads of scraps at school.. i was just miserable and would fight any motherfucker who got in my face

i finally just saved enough and moved the fuck out of there.. im glad i did, it was the shittiest time of my life

didnt end there.. want me to continue?
sorry im just drunk, got home from the club.. i dont have many friends out here who have been thru ANY shit, broken homes
im sure lots of you guys have stories of your own, seems like some of you guys have been thru lots

You just got home drunk?

I didn't have the woodent spoon, I had the wooden mallet. LOL.

not mom.. she'd be busy yelling for dad to stop...


Went off to school on numerous occasions with belt welts all over my legs, back and neck - open handprints on my face.. etc. until I was about 12 when I eventually toughened up and would just stare at him with hate-filled eyes while he beat me without crying or whimpering, then it was basically over.

local trees were my fear.

She used to take the leaves off a good size switch and badaa bing... there goes sitting down for a couple of days.

She hit my voice out... you know... when you are in so much pain that you can't scream. But your mouth is wide open.

I get chills just thinking about it :waaaaahh

shit. we just had the same nightmares!!! yes. exactly the same :(

or she threw shits at me. I mean whatever she could grab around

My mom tried a few times, but she gave up. She hits like a girl. :1orglaugh

-AC Tracey