in this thread i will teach you how to pick up girls
 

this can be applied to many things like meeting people at shows and im not talking one night stand stuff, this is for quality. All of this is my own opinion/experience and ill probably add more



first, have a smile or smirk on your face or be ready to smile at anything, always be friendly, and seem like the fun guy

never approach a girl head on. try to find a way to be in the area and comment on something. no need to attack right away either. you can see somebody one time, then run into them again later (same night or a different time) and you automatically have an in. you can comment, hey, i saw you at xxx a few days ago

within the first glance or few seconds you can tell if there is interest or not. dont follow the lost causes, your wasting your time

talk about anything, it doesnt matter, let the conversation flow to whatever topic. the point is to keep it up

if a girl touches you or keeps smiling, its a good sign. dont be too confident at this point though, this is often a farce to let your guard down, then they know you are an option for them, and once they evaluate all of their options, they may not notice you any more (scottsdale chicks are making me bitter)

have dignity, dont be desperate or be all over somebody, it shows weakness, you have to play it cool (very hard sometimes)

i know this sounds corny, but act like a friend at first, like you are getting to know them, it puts them at ease and basically, if you can keep homebodies interest for that long, thats a great sign

pretty girls automatically are on HIGH DEFENSE ALERT because they get hit on so much. so imo the best chances are non-threatening, under the radar approaches, to see if the chemistry is there

You could just flash your cash, that works too.

Make this quicker... Find the group of better looking girls, find the duff and talk to her, all over with.

please tell me how you flash cash and get women, unless your talking about prostitutes. ive never understood how this would work

would you date a ugly girl with no personality just cause she can drive you around in a nice car and take you to nice places to eat?

in my opinion thats just an excuse people use for when they see a successful guy with a cute girl. they say "yea, well, the rich guys get all the girls" when they dont realize that perhaps the same skills that made the guy successful in his career made his good with the girls as well

its a copout, you see guys at all levels with cute girls

also, its not about how many hot chicks are at the bar you are in. its about your competition. if your at a bar and all the guys are a bunch of dorks and there are some cute girls there, you are in

Picking up drunk guys is easier

:1orglaugh Good luck with that...

Great deal of advice, webmasterchecks :)!

Hell yeah! :thumbsup

Worst advice ever.

If a woman you don't know smiles back when you smile at her, the best thing you can do is to approach her immediately. Introduce yourself, makes her laugh once or twice, get her phone number, and get out of there.

If you wait, chances are you'll simply never meet her again.

Dress nice, take care of your body.. and just have fun and don't give a fuck what people think of you... and don't go around trying to pick up girls and girls will come to you...

I know this because i have a gf, so when i'm out clubbing i don't even really give a fuck about trying to get girls because i know i'll get laid in the end anyways... and i pretty much just have a blast with my friends and usually when girls see that guys arn't creeping on them , and are having a great time.. they will want to be around that guy

If this is your way of approaching sets you're going about it all wrong.

When you go into a set of girls why go for the uglies like you say or give up if you see no interest within a minute.

the key to approaching a women is being confident in yourself, genuinely interested in her, and you must show some sort of value. But before you can dream of this you first have to make sure you shut down any and all worries from them.. this means the very first thing you must take care of when approaching girls is a time constraint. It's the first thing a girl thinks in her head when you approach her "when is this guy gonna leave,i hope he doesn't stay long." get the thought out of there head by telling them u can only stay a moment because your friends are waiting but you needed to ask them something etc. once you have there attention make sure you aren't asking something boring and can be answered with a yes or no answer. You want to involve the whole group talking.


&if you wanna get the pretty girl, DO NOT HIT ON THEM!! They are use to it,it happens everyday & if you do it they will judge you on every other fag thats tried to pick them up before. Instead concentrate on there friends completely ignoring them! In fact if she tries to speak,neg her about it, ask if she always interupts or gives stupid opinions etc... this will get her mad and fighting for your attention. And already you have an emotional attachment.. anger is an emotion.. now it will be easier to change that anger into lust.

Remember Push & pull, neg them.

& thats your short lesson for the day.

You know... or you could just rape them...

also, girls can be timid. you can walk into a bar and have 10 girls that would be interested in talking to you, and you not know it and walk out, because you didnt try. how many girls have you thought "naw, she wouldnt like me" but you never tried. who knows

problem with some guys is confidence, they get snubbed by 1-2 girls and they go home. its a numbers game, i have a friend who, whenever we go out, he hits on every single hot girl at the bar. when they walk by him, he grabs their hand and tries to talk to them. my other friend was just joking that he saw him hit on the same girl 3x last night (he was drinking), but that works for him. he gets rejected 9/10 time, but he hits on 20 girls a night

you can get a lot worse advice than what i just gave ;)

but i agree with you, if a girl smiles back, but i was talking about was the seek and destroy concept ;-)

sure when a girl smiles at you you have to act, or if she walks up to you and says something, or the bottle points at you, or whatever

Almost forgot, do it the old fashioned way.

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hahah i have a few friends like that too...

my god does he hit on a lot of girls... out of all my friends, he probably fucks the most girls.. because

1.) He always has a huge smile on his face and is having an awesome time
2.) hits on absolutely every girl, and plays the number game

He gets rejected a shitload, but he picks up a lot of girls at the end of every night

Bars are one of the worst places to pick up women, unless you have a fetish for drunk sluts.

Even supermarkets are a better place for getting laid.

LOL oh my god i laughed o hard

:thumbsup

When you see an attractive woman, always make eye contact and smile at her. If she smiles back (which will happen often), approach her. If you do this consistently, you won't even have time to approach others.

sure, there is going to be rejection. do you convert every click to your site? some girls are married, have boyfriends, its not worth leaving their group to talk to you (whereas in a different situation they would have been interested), whatever, its a given and you have to acknowledge that and not be scared away when it happens

That's as old skool as the B-Boy Stance:

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girls are like paysites, show them a tame banner ad, see if they go for it, then give 'em a quick tour of what you got, if they like it they'll go to your join page, take them home and give them a 1 day trial, if you're any good hopefully they'll retain for years to come

i never said go for the uglies, my whole thread is against that. my point was that you can go to a bar with 20 hot chicks, and have 50 good looking guys, but you may end up doing better at a bar with 5 hot girls and your the best catches there

the rest of your post is on par casa nova

this may work for you, but with my experience in scottsdale clubs, the ratio of smilebacks is like 1/300, i understand results will vary with enviroment

when you learn to pick up girls in scottsdale, you can get them almost anywhere in the US, imo. its like a top gun ace shooting down biplanes

how about just looking good and being yourself ?

that usually works for me.

Yep thats a given I get what you're saying. Glad to exchange knowledge with ya.:thumbsup

If you only get smiled back once in every 300 times, I have two tips for you:

1 - Leave the clubs. Like I said, awful place to pick up women. In a club, you're "just another guy looking to score", and therefore not interesting.
2 - Fix your looks.

sure, but arent you oversimplifying it by saying that? dont tell me when you walk into room, chicks just run up to you. this has become a discussion of what works and how you can improve on it, for those that want to

get more, get better quality, and what if your not good looking? that was a pretty vain and small-minded post, with all due respect. not trying to offend you

Amen!:1orglaugh

same here man

with all due respect that is exactly what i'm saying. no matter how vain that sounds...

Now here is advice for the women :

AVOID the guys that try and pick you up because most likely to them it IS a numbers game (like some of the guys have substantiated in this thread) , so it really IS NOT an honor to get hit on.

Most likely he has hit on 10 girls right before you, and will hit on 10 girls after you, so what's in it for the girl?? She hit #15 during the course of the night, since it's nothing but a numbers game for the guys.

This is why smart girls KNOW not to EVER go for guys that try and pick you up, ESPECIALLY in a bar or club, because the guy tries it with EVERYONE, and he will try it with a bunch of girls AFTER you, regardless of whether you were interested/friendly/nice/give him your number or not.

What smart female wants to be prey #10 for the night. It shows a total lack of sincerity on the guy's part. A smart girl will know that it's nothing but a numbers game to you.

Therefore, why should women even respond nicely to you? You're just going to hit on 10 more girls for the rest of the night? Why should she give you her number when all you are doing is trying to get as many numbers and fuck as many girls as possible? Do you think that's actually flattering to a woman? That she's the #10 chick u hit on so far?

What woman would want to date/give her number out to a guy who's just out to fuck and wants to get as many as possible phone numbers for their egos??? All the good ones DONT.

These type of guys are just hoes and want to get as many numbers/pussy as possible. Avoid these guys.

Fuck me - women don't half make it not at all impossible to meet men eh? What kind of down-right cess-infested, twatfaced, mongarsed, shitlooking douchebag of a complete assclowning dickfaced monkey-jizm eating shithead would expect to go to a club or bar to meet members of the opposite sex?

I mean - fuck me - I'm just there to pick up some milk and teacakes...

i don't think i've had sex with less then a 8 since high school. am i good looking? http://tinyurl.com/3xqa4r i tend to think so...even with my hat to the side, a straw in my mouth and a retarded look on my face.

Small minded? no. Vain? ya...i've been conditioned to be.

no offense taken.

Hun, don't worry. We're not interested in you anyway.

great thread .......with no bashing at all ....weird

small minded was the wrong word, i meant it as you are saying "it happens to me" and thats great but what is the breakdown of what happens and are there things that you can to to tweak the process to increase efficiency and quality of results

Not every guy is out to just fuck the girl! There are some of us who genuinely approach to get to know the person because we have an attraction. Not every guy goes up to every girl in the club with strictly sex on there mind. & when you think that way, chances are you just might be blowing off someone that could've loved you like no other.

Give a chance, to the guys that approach you at a club/bar, library, street wherever! Because at least he had the balls to come up and try to get to know you. You can usually tell the bullshitters from the genuine guys,and if the time comes where he starts putting you in a sexual situation you always have the choice to back down and leave.

If you walk around thinking every guy that approaches you is just trying to get in your pants then you will never find someone to love you, because you don't give anyone a chance.

Usually the first 5 replies direct the tone of the thread,I'm sure if someone started bashing within those replies this thread would've all been bashing by now lol

Thankfully there is some mature people online today it seems.

Well if a guy hit on 10 girls before whoever he just did now and will hit on 10 girls afterwards, it's basically only a game, just a numbers game... (as people here are suggesting)

That is not considered genuinely hitting on someone because there is an attraction.