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Lykos 04-12-2004 09:17 AM

If u r planing something serious with her u should offcourse tell that to her,couse later it will be difficult to her to understand,from the begining it is easier for bouth:thumbsup

Lucy 04-12-2004 09:37 AM

If you feel that you want to be with this girl, you should tell her that for sure and you'll see her reaction, just be honest.
And if she is gonna leave you because of your job, she doesn't deserve you.:winkwink:

tony286 04-12-2004 09:42 AM

Do you have a actual website that you create content for or do you push programs. If you push programs you are more of a internet marketer than a pornographer in reality so your not lying.

graphicsbytia 04-12-2004 09:42 AM

Quote:

Originally posted by sweetcuties
She's over now... I told her this morning. Everything is cool :thumbsup
wtg! :thumbsup

sweetcuties 04-12-2004 11:25 AM

Quote:

Originally posted by tony404
Do you have a actual website that you create content for or do you push programs. If you push programs you are more of a internet marketer than a pornographer in reality so your not lying.
Yea, I've got several, successful softcore sites and I shoot my own content. Believe it or not, I don't even get involved with the girls "anymore", lol. Give up doing that around 2yrs ago. I see it just as biz, that's all.

I'm on cloud 9 or whatever cloud, lol

Dax 04-13-2004 07:18 PM

Most answers or comments are way off...

I have ran into the same problem.. I live in a city that is very open about sex.. so saying that you work in adult / porn is not a big deal.. Shit.. most ppl know me cuz i shoot naked chicks.. cuz my friends are so dumb that they want to "show off" telling most ppl that they know a guy who shoots girls naked..

Well what I have noticed is that, shooting girls naked or even shooting porn is not a big deal.. most girls see it as just a job.. the problem comes ( totally understandable ) when you actually do take part and are talent...

Good luck with that!

Babagirls 04-13-2004 07:20 PM

Quote:

Originally posted by DR_PHIL
tell her then if she starts freaking out say "I AM JUST KIDDING"
believe it or not, that WILL work :glugglug

sixxxth_sense 04-13-2004 07:20 PM

Mine's okay,
she says whatever makes u money!

She don't like it but she hasto live witih it!

shermo 04-13-2004 07:20 PM

I'd tell her up front if you feel this is a woman you'd like to be with for a while. If she can't accept what you do at the begining oif a relationship, she'll really take it had after you've been together for a while.

Be honest with her and things will hopefully work out! :thumbsup

zentz 04-13-2004 07:22 PM

tell her, if she start complaining tell her to fuck off

RedMonkey 04-13-2004 07:23 PM

Tell Her:

"I have the Dick I Make The Rules"

Lol

If she dont like it there are a million more

Spunky 04-13-2004 07:24 PM

:glugglug What she doesn't know,won't hurt her.

Vitasoy 04-13-2004 07:32 PM

Quote:

Originally posted by sweetcuties
She's over now... I told her this morning. Everything is cool :thumbsup
That's good to hear :)

Mr. Marks 04-13-2004 07:40 PM

Play it safe. If you don't wanna lose the
girl, lie. But if you want live with some peace
of mind, then tell her the truth.

pussyluver 04-13-2004 07:56 PM

Yep, should of tested the waters early on. Now she nows whereyou live etc. What do you do when she freaks and complains to the local police and tells your aunt Martha......

Got to test her to see how she'll react. The Just Kidding - maybe?? Or see of porn is of interest to her.

Got me, tell you're into swinging and see how that plays???

pussyluver 04-13-2004 07:58 PM

Quote:

Originally posted by graphicsbytia
think about this..

you already like this girl.. suppose you don't tell her and you both end up liking each other a lot. Suppose you like each other so much you start to make plans.. then you tell her and she is totally against it.. she already likes you so much she decides to stick with you even though she hates what you do.. you get married....

Now you're stuck with a wife where the newness has worn off and all you have left is someone you live with who hates what you do and hates you for doing it..

take it from someone who's been around the block a few times.. think ahead

Tia, maybe we should go go jogging sometime... Around the block a time or two!

MistressLuna 04-13-2004 08:02 PM

You should definately tell her. Most people that are worth it will completely understand if you explain exactly what you do and why.

Huggles 04-13-2004 08:04 PM

As long as you're not a stunt cock, what's the big deal about telling her?

BVF 04-13-2004 08:07 PM

If you're afraid to tell her now, what makes you think you'll tell her later AFTER you've built a relationship with her...

If she's really the one for you, tell her what you do now...That way you'll save the hassle..I've lost a boatload of girls too because of porn but I know that there is somehahahaha out there for me that will understand.

It's amazing how I could get a good woman if I told her that I sell crack but tell a hoe you do porn and she runs...

Firehorse 04-13-2004 09:09 PM

Tell her and If she thinks enough of you she will stay and if she doesn't it was only sex! :2 cents:

Phoenix 04-13-2004 09:13 PM

dont tell her..you can just make it up as you go:thumbsup

deleteduser 04-13-2004 09:16 PM

Quote:

Originally posted by sweetcuties
Been doing this for a few yrs and lost some good girls because of what I do. I just met this "kick ass" girl and I'm debating. I do "web marketing"... but if I bring her to certain things, she'll know. What's do you think?
how old are you / is she?

sweetcuties 04-13-2004 09:16 PM

Wow... this thread is still going. Anyway, look on pg 1, already told her and she's fine with it. I was talking to her today and she brought it up out of the blue... I had to reassure her that all my stuff is softcore

BVF 04-13-2004 09:20 PM

Quote:

Originally posted by sweetcuties
Wow... this thread is still going. Anyway, look on pg 1, already told her and she's fine with it. I was talking to her today and she brought it up out of the blue... I had to reassure her that all my stuff is softcore
But you BETTER NOT have told her where to find it or you're as good as fucked...If she knows that she can type in sweetcuties.com and find your shit you might as well put your divorce lawyer on retainer.

sexualdiva 04-14-2004 08:43 PM

tell her but explain it out so she wont jump to conclusions.. and think she knows what it is you exactly do.. marketing you say? ok...

Good luck with it! :)

AnalProbe 04-14-2004 09:29 PM

Just tell her.

Sooner or later they find out.

lagwagon 04-14-2004 09:36 PM

play a little game with her. "just the tip"


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