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Old 01-21-2003, 06:22 AM   #1
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women independent of men

a female friend of a friend of a friend of a friend just opened a chatboard for women who have problems in their relationship or need some encouragement to get their life back on track or even to discuss ways to become financially independent

or just to chat about chocolates and men

the site is called "I am a dumb mutha fucka.com" and it's just came online and requires some input

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Old 01-21-2003, 06:46 AM   #2
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we should send Labret as our board representative.
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we should send Labret as our board representative.
He's already there.
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What do you take us for, fools? This is just clever spam.

"I'm a motivated, successful woman, financially independ after divorcing my man after 35 years. My desire is to help other woman to achieve the same by getting their act together and run their own life. Get FREE, MOTIVATED, INDEPENDENT AND RUN YOUR OWN LIFE, JUST FOR YOU AND FEEL AT THE TOP OF THE WORLD. Get your own money by running your own business. Please apply under www.regineschoice.com"
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I read this there:
"it doesnt matter what we look like its what inside."

This is a myth to help ugly chicks feel good about themselves.

And why does she feel the need to attack Christian Aguilera? "That girl doesnt have any hips whatsoever, she looks pre-pubesent and many girls think this is the ideal body to be thought of as sexy."

This is sad.
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it looks like an amway......clone
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Old 01-21-2003, 07:48 AM   #10
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1000000 women have started chat board, somehow they never get more then 100 posts before they are out

Some just talk to themselves so it looks like there is 100 posts

I would just advise you to keep your cock between your legs and not try to help this women because in most cases if you help a female you will regret it
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way to reasurre them that all men aren't pricks..well done.
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Old 01-21-2003, 08:57 AM   #12
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1000000 women have started chat board, somehow they never get more then 100 posts before they are out

Some just talk to themselves so it looks like there is 100 posts

I would just advise you to keep your cock between your legs and not try to help this women because in most cases if you help a female you will regret it
Ditto for what Sarah said..

not too impressed..may be because of attitudes like that, that there is a need for boards like that one. That being said...I am still capable of knowing that despite the many assholes that have crossed my path, its the nice guys that restore my confidence.
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I would just advise you to keep your cock between your legs and not try to help this women because in most cases if you help a female you will regret it
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I bet ya almost every guy here that ever went out of his way to help a female did regret it

now dont be stupid, sure there are many successful women but sometimes guys just think and talk with their cock and do not focus on the core issues when doing business with women, like the guy who posted on GFY to get people to post there I mean thats just fucked up
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I can't seem to be able to trust other women (on the friendship or asking personal advice level), generally. I'd trust Labret before I would trust some woman on a message board I've never met. j/k j/k. Maybe I've just had bad experiences with other girls as friends and such... but I have a hard time finding anything in common with them anymore. Not so much in hobbies, but in the "general idea/thoughts/talking about whatever" catagory:

For example, if I was talking to someone, and they started ranting about clothing or Christina Aguelera's misshaped body, blah blah... whatever, I'm going to get bored. And likewise I'm sure.

I also don't like that whole female independence stuff. Who thought this up? It would be great to be back in the time when women tended house and family, and the men took care of making the money.
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not too impressed..may be because of attitudes like that, that there is a need for boards like that one.
You're not impressed but are willing to support a site with a forum called "Men. The weaker sex"? Pot to kettle. You're both black!
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For the record, I don't agree with any of the anti-women sentiment. Completely the opposite.

However this site is completely lame.
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Cathedra im with you. If you want to trade pics...i mean ideas we can go private
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I also don't like that whole female independence stuff. Who thought this up? It would be great to be back in the time when women tended house and family, and the men took care of making the money.
You go, girl!

The first step is to get yourself a Sugar Daddy.

No doubt there are a few volunteers here.

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or just to chat about chocolates and men
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I also don't like that whole female independence stuff. Who thought this up? It would be great to be back in the time when women tended house and family, and the men took care of making the money.
Ironically when guys say that to a woman it's usally replied to with something like

"You just want to control me. You want me at home doing what you want me to so you can have power over me"

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It's nice to hear a girl say that.
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"I also don't like that whole female independence stuff. Who thought this up? It would be great to be back in the time when women tended house and family, and the men took care of making the money. "


Will you marry me?
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No doubt there are a few volunteers here.
Wee~ finally something nice to me from you. Thank you!

I've always thought that. I was even raised by a mother who did the whole "going back to school to empower herself thing" which does deserve to be respected, but she did it too early think. She walked away from Motherhood to early. Maybe I got the impression when I was young, that suddenly mommy wasn't mom anymore. It messed with my view of Mommy and Daddy. Daddy punished, Mom protected. Mom stayed home, helped with activities etc... Daddy bought me things and listened to me babble about cartoons and stuff! That's the way it should be.

I like the idea that men are stronger and take care of the wife and family financially and protectively. And I LOVE the idea that mom is the warm, loving center, and she can heal everyone and give support and protection in the "emotion" part of it all. It's really the ideal isn't it? I've always always thought this, ever since I was little.

Another point, I remember my mother's cooking to be very good. But since she set out to be "independant" all my parents do is go out to eat.

EDIT: Oh... and I completely forgot. I have a man! I left home just to move down here with him. But he's making me work doing the whole design thing, and some galleries and stuff. I'll do as much work as I need to, as long as I can do it from home, I don't like the "sentence" of having to go out and work for fixed hours...
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Will you marry me?
If only my boyfriend would say that...
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Ironically when guys say that to a woman it's usally replied to with something like

"You just want to control me. You want me at home doing what you want me to so you can have power over me"

Etc.

It's nice to hear a girl say that.
If its not a control thing, then what is it? Hmm?
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It'd be awesome to work from home and be able to answer your kids and husband when they call...I'm looking forward to it

Having kids, making dinner, cleaning up and of course sharing chores...but if you bring home the money, I'll keep care of the home...ahh the good ole days when mom was home and cooked real food
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If its not a control thing, then what is it? Hmm?
Neediness. Isn't that cute? The men people, they needs us!
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I honestly think its important for both the man and the woman to have accomplished certain things in their life, in order to develop and maintain a positive relationship with each other.

I have never known any female, in their right mind, who just wants to grow up and have babies and bake pies on sunday. And who wants to completely rely on a man.

My sister has a "mother-in-law" who is a complete Betty Crocker, the perfect house wife and mom. She also takes 7 seperate anti-depressant meds on a daily basis. But she is one hell of a homemaker!
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I honestly think its important for both the man and the woman to have accomplished certain things in their life, in order to develop and maintain a positive relationship with each other.

I have never known any female, in their right mind, who just wants to grow up and have babies and bake pies on sunday. And who wants to completely rely on a man.

My sister has a "mother-in-law" who is a complete Betty Crocker, the perfect house wife and mom. She also takes 7 seperate anti-depressant meds on a daily basis. But she is one hell of a homemaker!
You're right. The extremes are not good. But the general idea is what I think is good, and... ideal... (poorly written sentence, sorry... lol).

Er... and I think I got your stance wrong... Are you agreeing or disagreeing with "women in the home?"
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That is pretty closed-minded.
far from closed minded, but its normal for people to hate to face the facts
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I'm just happy that there are guys out there that still appreciate a woman that is willing to live such a life. Some people still don't understand how important it is for kids to have a mom and a dad...not just people that work and toss McDonalds at you when they walk in the door
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I'm just happy that there are guys out there that still appreciate a woman that is willing to live such a life. Some people still don't understand how important it is for kids to have a mom and a dad...not just people that work and toss McDonalds at you when they walk in the door


That's the life my 6-y-o niece is leading right now. I love my sister, she's a good mother... but...
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theres always a but...no one is perfect...hehe...my parents are far from it...i just want a guy that will understand the importance thats all and is willing to let me be mom, wife and housekeeper not career woman + mom + wife + housekeeper...screw that guy!

btw, fave plave in the house besides the bedroom is the kitchen...
can't help but love to cook...its that damn cleaning up!
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theres always a but...no one is perfect...hehe...my parents are far from it...i just want a guy that will understand the importance thats all and is willing to let me be mom, wife and housekeeper not career woman + mom + wife + housekeeper...screw that guy!

btw, fave plave in the house besides the bedroom is the kitchen...
can't help but love to cook...its that damn cleaning up!
I've never talked to another women that felt the same way as I do! I'm quite enjoying it.

I'd be willing to go out and work if it's absolutely needed. There's no question about that. You can't very well care for children if you can't scrub up the money to do so (I don't plan on having children for a long time as it is) But, as I plan it, from birth until they move out, I want to be home for my future children.

This might be why I'm attracted to Asian culture. They are more into those old men-work women-keep-house roots. Actually, I've heard that generally women in Japan quit work once they get married. Also, the woman takes care of finances. Basically, the man forks over his paycheck to her every month for her to work into the budget... etc. Kinda like that idea too. Hehehe.
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You're right. The extremes are not good. But the general idea is what I think is good, and... ideal... (poorly written sentence, sorry... lol).

Er... and I think I got your stance wrong... Are you agreeing or disagreeing with "women in the home?"
It all depends on the situation.

In my experience, it was not until I hit about 25 that I barely started to feel as if I had done anything in this world, for myself and my own reasons.

All of my female friends who got knocked up and married prior to about that age have all cheated on their husbands at some point and lie to them, even just occasionally, so they can go out do drugs and booze it up with the guys in the club. ("if my husband calls you tell him I slept over your house, Cherry!") Then the next day all is peachy and they go back to the lives they are stuck in, perhaps even being somewhat happy. I just cannot live that way and will never find myself in that type of situation.

I'm not taking a stance on this one, I just hope evolution progresses with stupidity being a recessive gene.

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All of my female friends who got knocked up and married prior to about that age have all cheated on their husbands at some point and lie to them
well it sounds like they married for the wrong reasons...

I'm not quitting work until I'm about 6 months pregnant and then the profession I chose is definately 100% workable from home and brings in a nice amount of money, thats how I planned and thats what my mom taught me...you never go into a marriage without and education...you never know what the future brings
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Old 01-21-2003, 11:12 AM   #44
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It all depends on the situation.

In my experience, it was not until I hit about 25 that I barely started to feel as if I had done anything in this world, for myself and my own reasons.

All of my female friends who got knocked up and married prior to about that age have all cheated on their husbands at some point and lie to them, even just occasionally, so they can go out do drugs and booze it up with the guys in the club. ("if my husband calls you tell him I slept over your house, Cherry!") Then the next day all is peachy and they go back to the lives they are stuck in, perhaps even being somewhat happy. I just cannot live that way and will never find myself in that type of situation.

I'm not taking a stance on this one, I just hope evolution progresses with stupidity being a recessive gene.
Ahhh, I see now. I would not be one of those women. I've been in three solid relationships, length of relationships ranging from 5~1 years, I've had a one night stand... blah blah. I got that all out of my system. It's been consistent in my mind that the only thing I want now it one partner.

So I'm hoping to stay with who I'm with. I'd cheated on a past boyfriend (I had the best reason, if there ever was any, but I won't go into that) and it wasn't satisfying at all. I'm also not a partier. I don't like going out to meet people, I just... don't mesh well, I have no idea why. One on one, or in small groups is usually a blast, but the club thing just isn't for me. I like more intimate gatherings.

I don't plan on even thinking about seriously having children until I'm 25~26. I want to have children before I'm 30, I know that much. I don't want to be an old mother, like mine was. I want to be on a closer level with my children. I want to be youthful with them. (not too youthful, I will still provide enough strictness and rules )
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Old 01-21-2003, 11:15 AM   #45
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well it sounds like they married for the wrong reasons...

I'm not quitting work until I'm about 6 months pregnant and then the profession I chose is definately 100% workable from home and brings in a nice amount of money, thats how I planned and thats what my mom taught me...you never go into a marriage without and education...you never know what the future brings
Yeah wrong reasons no doubt. Mostly irresponsible sex and religious parents against abortion.

Unfortunately not everyone has a mom as smart as yours, but that is absolutely true. You never know what the future may bring.
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Old 01-21-2003, 11:15 AM   #46
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I read this there:
"it doesnt matter what we look like its what inside."

This is a myth to help ugly chicks feel good about themselves.

And why does she feel the need to attack Christian Aguilera? "That girl doesnt have any hips whatsoever, she looks pre-pubesent and many girls think this is the ideal body to be thought of as sexy."

This is sad.
i agree, it sounds like some bittter hag that got buned buy some guy..

fuck that stupid site, hopefully all those stupid abused hahahahas spend a lot of time on that lame shit then the company goes bankrupt or that bitch rips them off
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Ahhh, I see now. I would not be one of those women. I've been in three solid relationships, length of relationships ranging from 5~1 years, I've had a one night stand... blah blah. I got that all out of my system. It's been consistent in my mind that the only thing I want now it one partner.

So I'm hoping to stay with who I'm with. I'd cheated on a past boyfriend (I had the best reason, if there ever was any, but I won't go into that) and it wasn't satisfying at all. I'm also not a partier. I don't like going out to meet people, I just... don't mesh well, I have no idea why. One on one, or in small groups is usually a blast, but the club thing just isn't for me. I like more intimate gatherings.

I don't plan on even thinking about seriously having children until I'm 25~26.
ditto...i've done all my crap...and lots of it I will NEVER do again.
Kids...I'm waiting til I'm about 27-29...no later, no earlier...unless of course something happens...
p.s. if you guys don't know...there are some guys girls just would never dream of cheating on...my current man is one of them!
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Old 01-21-2003, 11:18 AM   #48
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Yeah wrong reasons no doubt. Mostly irresponsible sex and religious parents against abortion.

Unfortunately not everyone has a mom as smart as yours, but that is absolutely true. You never know what the future may bring.
The best part of it all...is sitting in class at college and the disapproving looks i get when asked what i want to do with my life and i answer, raise a family. You can have an awesome impact on the world through your kids alone, people have forgotten that
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You know I didn't notice that the forum had a section entitled "men: the weaker sex" and I'm not toally comfortable with that.

I think there is a fine line between empowering women, and stepping on men. I don't agree with putting men down or saying that they are weaker, or that women are better.

All I have to say is EscortBiz, if you got fucked over by women for helping them and you decide to cross them off your list you are as narrowminded as the man-hating feminist.

Anytime you categorize someone based on gender, race, or whatnot you are not punishing them in the end, but yourself by closing yourself off. EscortBiz, i'm not blasting you hon, I'm just trying to make you see that it's yourself that will reap the least from this judgement in the end.
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Old 01-21-2003, 12:01 PM   #50
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I have never liked it when women claim to be superior to men. I just want to be thought of as equal. I don't want men to be discriminated against for my benifit - how is that righting a wrong?

However, it is about having the choice to be a homemaker if you want not being made to be one. It isn't too long ago we didn't have that choice and it is those independent women we have to thank.
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