Having been in your position myself 7 years ago with me and her both in other relationships...
We decided to give it a go.
7 years, 2 houses, 1 dog and a fantastic life together.... its totally worth taking the chance. I am MUCH happier knowing that I took the chance to go for it than spending the rest of my life kicking myself in the ass for shutting the door on my future.
Fucking go for it man. You only live once, you might as well have a good time.
