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Originally Posted by Stacey_JoinRightNow I was the talkative one... I always talk to my friends and there was a time I made my bestfriend cry... and the reason? she was jealous bec. I was always the center around... hahahaha

Sounds like my wife's deal with her girl friends. There are the popular (or the pretty ones, or the pretty AND popular) ones, and then there are the ones who have the misfortune to be "less noticeable" by comparison. Have you seen groups of girls like this? Perhaps in the mall. I am so fascinated by the dynamic that binds them together. Like your friend, sometimes they suffer. None wish it so. Yet, that is life. We also wonder why they stay around. The one in the middle, if she is a good person in the making will do her best not to lord it over the outer ones, but try, instead, to turn the lights on them at every opportunity. Alas, many young girls are tragically insecure at that age, even (some would say, ESPECIALLY) the very pretty ones. Given a chance to control someone's sensitive buttons, they will... and seem to care very little for the consequences to that other human being. At best, I think there can be a great symbiosis there, a balancing of weaknesses and strengths -- like the Master-Blaster Duo from Thunderdome.