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Originally posted by Eric_aka_RedEyes
I think you missed the point here Dildozer. Eros meant that if someone allocates too much time to one thing and ignores the people who they have said that they would love then they are cheating that person out of true caring that they have promised them.
Either way... Too much of anything is a bad thing. Everything in moderation. I believe that everyone needs 3 sects of time... Time with the ones they love, time with friends, and time ALONE. Many times people get smoothered with one or the other and then run to another one to get away. But either way everyone needs time with Wife, Kids, Family, etc. Time with the boys or girls. And time alone to reflect and internalize on themselves. Balance that properly and you will be happy.
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I totally agree with you.
I have friends whom i barely see anymore because of their girlfriend. We used to hang out alot and then she came by. Everytime i have to see those guys they always have to be with their girlfriends. It's really depressing and kinda pathetic. Shows to me how spineless some guys are or how fragile some relationships can be.
I mean, i'm not afraid to tell my girlfriend when she shouldn't come or when i don't want her to come and she does the same for me. We love each other very much still and respect each other's time away.