From a Girl's Perspective:
I've been dumped alot. That was when I was much younger like from 19-24. I was very needy. People don't like that. I've always been independent but being needy in a relationship is just disastrous, male or female.
Nowadays I have fun, I'm 30, I grew up, I know what I want and don't want. I don't want a relationship that's for sure. People get close and I pull away.
It's very interesting how the very thing we hungered for in others, like closeness or not being alone in a relationship is the one thing I want more than ever. I want to be alone and do what the fuck I want, with who I want, and when I want. I have that choice and that power, when I was younger I didn't give myself enough credit.
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