i find it easier to put myself into a situation where i wouldn't have to lie. like, cheating - that's non-existant for me and my gf (longterm "toy", basically). i don't think i'd like to be in a relationship where sleeping with someone else every once in a while meant going behind the gf's back.
maybe if most women didn't push guys in to something they don't need (like a strict 1-on-1 relationship (boring)) it wouldn't happen as much.
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