there is another boy involved, although I don't know what the deal with him is. she's only known him 3 months. *shrug* her reasoning at first was "you waited too long to ask me" which is bullshit in my eyes. behind the scenes I've been busting my ass for the last 6 months to get her the exact ring she wants. I waited till 6 months ago because I wanted her to finish school. I'm not marrying someone that can't get through college. The additional 6 months has been the quest for this damn custom ring that I wanted to give her. She's recently said things like:
"I love you, but I'm not in love with you"
"I love you, but not in the way you want me too"
"We're soulmates" (WTF??)
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7.5 years and you guys never had a serious argument? That is shocking and I believe you are exaggerating on that or you two just were not completely honest with each other during that time.
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A few days after the breakup we both agreed that we had a good run, and that our most serious argument was whether it was "soda" or "pop" I think things were so good because we were so open and honest. No secrets, always told the other how we felt even if it hurt.
A lot of people have told me the "be glad it's now and not after you were married" others (including her mom) have said "the ballgame's not over" and "she'll come back" The big question is will I still be around. hehe