All of the above..
I pee sitting down at home to avoid urine spray on/around the bowl
I wipe the whole area with baby wipes
I shower after I take a crap
It's not about being gay or even metro, just common sense personal hygiene. Most woman aren't turned on by the taste or smell of urine, phoeces or sweaty balls. Anyone who thinks othwerwise is lazy and/or doesn't care about their woman or knows a woman isn't going to be going anywhere near that area in the forseeable future.
