Someone told me about this site yesturday, it totally kicks ass! They have videos explaning how to install apache, php, mysql ext. Its so easy, i learned to install all that in one day, its nuts.
http://3dbuzz.com/
Sign up for a free membership then go below and download the free vidoes.
http://3dbuzz.com/vbforum/sv_dl_list.php?c=6#
Basic lessons are free, you have to pay a fee if you want advance lessons. Btw, anyone know more sites like these?