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I wouldn't let him borrow it, even if it is a small amount I can easily afford because I am tired of people who borrow money and don't pay back after a long time because they think you have money to spare or they think because it's ok because they are your friend.
EVEN IF IT IS only $5 it shows UTTER DISRESPECT. And then they say shit like "oh it's not like I'm never gonna pay you back, you know I will", bullshit like that.
It doesn't matter that I don't NEED the money, it shows they don't respect me and think they can do whatever the fuck they want because they are taking advantage of our friendship.
So now I don't let anyone borrow money from now on, friends or family. It is just not my problem and not my fault other people's lifes are a mess. As long as their not starving or on the streets I'm sure they can manage. If it's not a life or death situation I let people figure it out for themselves. I worked hard for my money, why should I help others when no one helped me?
People always say "friends are more important than money" , well if that were the case then my friends woud not procrastinate so much and take years to pay back a small amount of money, it shows too much stupidity.
Most my family is well off so they wouldn't need to borrow money, it's mainly friends that don't have their shit together.
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