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No shit..... I so very much agree on every single subject you have hit here, SykkBoy......... I AM a a woman and I despise women who pop their heads into ANY place, Internet Porn or in a Public Place and scream "Help me because I am a woman" it makes me not even want to BE a woman when I see that..... makes me embarrased to be one at the very least........... I don't mean to put anyone down, but if you use this card, then you deserve the disrespect that you get as a result of playing this card.
Yes I have BEEN the content and the webmaster....... for well over my first year in this business, I WAS my own content because I couldn't afford to BUY it, so I used the tools I had at hand. And it was VERY rare that I was ever confronted as the "I just wanna fuck you" thing. I have never been treated with disrespect because I am a woman by anyone who matters in MY business. Those who have treated me in this manner get the same Rude Bitch attitude as I would give to ANYONE who treated me as an inferior.
I have no love for ANYONE who uses a Superior or an Inferior card. If you come at me acting smarter than me because you are a man, then fuck you, if you come at me as a woman and act inferior and helpless because you are a woman, then fuck you too!! I have had this last one happen to me several times because some think I am a man when they first talk to me and don't know me.
REALITY has it, that MOST business people by NATURE are automatically assume the MAN is the head of the house, so to speak........ you can put them in their places WITHOUT doing the "typical woman thing" as people call it and being a bitch.
I am a woman who has been in the porn industry for 3 years and I can't even think of ONE man who has come at me and treated me like I have no brains because I am a woman, if I do dumb shit then I do dumb shit, because I am human, not because I am a woman. And not one has treated me like a slut because I am my own content........... Why? Because I will show you my tits, but I will also damn well let anyone and everyone know that I am NOT available for anything more to you than "you can see my toys, but you can't play with them" . I let EVERYONE know I am happily married and this "content" thing is a part of who I am.
My husband played in Bars for god only knows how long, not ONE girl EVER disrespected him or put him in a position to think they were gonna be able to fuck him because he was "The Band". Why? Because he never disrespected women, AND he never put himself in a place where they thought he was available.
Bottom line is this:
Regardless of what sex you are, if you put yourself in a place and carry yourself in a way where people treat you like that, then shame FIRST of all on you, if they do it even if you are NOT acting the part, then shame on THEM. People are HUMAN, there are pigs in BOTH genders, but those "pigs" are unimportant to you unless you MAKE them important to you.
I am going to my first show in January and I am a woman, but you wanna know what MY biggest fear is? Not about guys wanting to use me as their content, but the NUMBER of people in general that will be there. I am a very small town girl and I have never been in a place like that....... so just the rat race alone scares me more than anything............ ;)
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