jackie1

I can never know for sure, but I usually don't meet people out of nowhere, it's usually through a trusted friend. For example, the guy I'm with now, I know his sister, I went to high school with her and have known her for over 10 years so I trust her a lot. In other cases I would try my best to find out and use my intuition but I guess you can never know for sure.

And no I haven't had a lot of partners. I'm very boring in my own private life, it's hard for me to trust someone. I usually take everything really seriously.

I don't judge other people tho, I could care less what they do, I'm not judgmental, but I'm kinda conservative in my own private life. I am very careful who I get involved with because I don't want to get hurt or lied to.

But you can never tell though because someone who has not had a lot of partners and is "virgin-like" could end up cheating in the future because they haven't sowed their wild oats yet or because they want to know "what else" is out there. And someone who is experienced can cheat too because they have already had so many women they already know what's "out there" and might want a taste of it again. Or once they have had so many partners they can't just be with one person anymore. So it's hard for me to judge because anyone can cheat whether they are a virgin or experienced so it's really hard to tell!!

Just have to go with my insticts I guess.

Also some girls actually like men that had a lot of partners, it makes them feel that they are so hot because they "tamed" him and got him to settle down and like they got the prize, but I don't feel that way. For me its not a prize to have someone who's been everywhere.