Originally Posted by jackie1

I would never want kids, first of all because I don't want to give birth and go through the pain of giving birth. I am nearing 30 and I still don't want them at all, to be honest I don't even like playing with other people's kids. I just don't really like kids. And giving birth is no picnic, not all women want to go through that. I know that definitely don't want to, whether you give birth or get a c-section, it's not a picnic and I don't like enduring any type of pain.

Plus I don't want to dedicate my life to someone else. I want to be free and happy and enjoy my life without being obligated to anything. I want to be able to live freely and travel or leave the country whenever I feel like, and it's hard to do that when you have to take care of kids, you can't be spontaneous and just go for a few weeks to another country.

My boyfriend actually wants kids one day but I don't wany any at all. I was never motherly and never thought kids were "cute" the way a lot of people just "oooh" and "aaaah" over kids, I always felt nothing when looking at kids.