LOL DX. Hardly retired, work a lot more now actually. How you been?
fnet; There are a lot of things that set us apart. You, and anyone are free to create an account on the site and take a look around to see for yourselves. My listing everything here would take me ages and bore a lot of people. Plus all my new friends will have more spamming to accuse me of.
In general tho, our site has more of a "community" feel than any other adult personals site I've seen. We have a large forums section which is great for interactivity. We offer all the usuals that are out there, and do some better than most if not all. Our photo albums which were just recently introduced allow users to post as many photos as they wish of themselves in named/categorized folders. Any members can see the thumbnails but only paying members may view the full size images. Like I said, lots of things that I could go into, but it's best to be seen.
One thing that really sets us apart is that our site is very closely moderated so that fake ads are weeded out as best possible and the forums and other interactive areas are closely monitored. Quality is a big issue if you're in this for the long haul.
The male

ratio is about average for the industry. Those with an exceptional amount of females means they have an exceptional amount of fake ads. Either placed by themselves to fool people into upgrading or placed by others to advertise another site or service. We don't do or allow any of this as it severely takes away from the qaulity and experience of the site.
We also have very user-friendly site navigation which we often receive comments from users about. Maybe thats something that makes the site cool.
We have no official get togethers as of yet, but there are a lot of users attempting to plan them in the forums. We figure at this point it's better to let them get together themselves. It also shows other members browsing the forums that there are people on the site who are serious about getting together and having fun.
There are bigger fish around now. I make no claim to being the largest site. Many have been around much longer than our 2 or so years. What stops us from falling off when a "badder" fish comes along, is that since we dedicate a lot of time to constantly improving the site, one won't.
Hope this helps a little

If you or anyone need anything, feel free to contact me directly or on here.