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I have 6 kids
They got each one good spanking at one time in their live
I never had to do it again, all I said was!
"You want me to get the paddle"
It's an old paddle, worn, loved and hated by everybody in my family.
Hidden by most of the kids at least once.
The last time I had to use is was
when my than 16 year old son (6 years ago) stole the neighbors car and went on a joy ride. He got 20 paddles on his butt! Lightweight pants only!!. You want to see a 16 year old cry in fear before hand. That was the way to do it. None of the other kids ever done anything stupid afterwards, to deserve the paddle. I don't hit, the paddle is it!
I never needed to hit my kids in the face, punch them, kick them or anything else like that. Put the fear into them from small on than you got good kids when they grow up.
3 are now in their 20's and good to go (Pawnbroker, Legal Ass, and College)
3 are still in their pre-teens and you never know. The paddle might be used again in the future!
What that lady did to that 4 year old was not right. If the kid mis-behaved smack!!! it on the butt, its not the pain which makes kids behave is the fact that they know they did wrong. It doesn't even have to be hard. I flick my 10 year old on the arm with my fingers and say "Clean your room" and trust me she whines like a pup. OOO that hurt mom!! .
My kids watched that lady beating her 4 year old on TV and the first thing they said was "Oh my god mom thats terrible what that lady does, I hope the baby (everything is a baby to my pre-teens) is ok.
But at age 4 to 13 they are braindead anyway, talking and beatings don't get thru to them. Taking away the TV, PC or Phone. well NOW youre talking.
Just ask my 13 year old lol
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Partying since '96 and not going anywhere Anna's Dorm
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