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Originally posted by titmowse
hey Rocky. i don't know you but i see you've mentioned your grandfather passed very recently. i am so sorry for that.
a word of advice: grief manifests itself in many ways. one of the first things grief counsellors tell those who have lost a loved one is not to make any life changing decisions for a while. there's a feeling of powerlessness that accompanies many folks when they are grieving. it's natural to believe we can regain control by reshaping our lives.
wait a while before you give up. you've just lost someone you loved and that's enough for you to deal with right now.
then again, i could be full of shit. happy birthday!
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thanks for the kind words and birthday wishes titmowse
while all the things you mentioned are somewhat true in my situation, it may end up being the hosting company that i use that pulls the plug
i'm just trying to find a way to survive