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I do understand your questioning...
I'm 100% in love with my girlfriend... and she's 100% in love with me. We're totally into each other. And yet, she's bisexual and I fancy other girls (everyone here fancies other people so don't try and say you don't if your married or in love)... we have threesomes. She gets the sexual pleasure of being with a girl, and I get to fuck other girls, and beacuse we're doing it together, it's just another facet to our sex life. I'd go crazy if she did it alone, and she would if I did it alone ... so we don't. We're faithful to each other.
So, luckily I don't need to worry about that side of things... but I WAS Married and with the same girl for 8 years since 19 years old... and it WAS frustrating! lol... I dunno... each to their own. Thing is... my girlfriend now, who I have been with quite a while and I am going to be with forever as far as we're both concerned, is stunning and pushes all my buttons. We've both said if we didnt' wanna have another threesome we'd not worry, because we certainly don't NEED it. In fact, we turned down an incredibly sexy girl last night.
Sex between a couple is different from relationship to relationship and I don't think it's inconceivable for people to be cool with the one person to have sex with for the rest of your life (As I say, with my g/f now, I'm happy that if that's the case I'd still be happy).
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