Take a look at
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Databases and
PartnerRequester.com for your Free Partner Accounts (you'll need them soon or later).
But it's still required that you put a lot of time into it yourself, so if you want a complete solution hit me up, I can hire and teach an outsourced fulltime employee for you. I already did this for other adult companies, takes ~3months and then he would be able to work completely independant.
Take a look at
http://www.gofuckyourself.com/showthread.php?t=573984, there you'll find a basic idea what I'd do with him
Hit me up on ICQ 344688791 if you want some more details