But the problem is that with an answer of Yes to Decision #2 solely by the woman, eliminates Decision #3 for the man under our current system. Regardless of whther he wants to raise it or not, he's going to. Either by being there with the child, or by sending a check every month.
So I cannot agree that men should be left out of Decision #2 whther it's *your body* or not. It's still MY life you are affecting with that decision as well.
