Originally Posted by Ycaza

finding a girl like you is very hard. Its not so much that its a game as much as its stupidity out there. People are too stupid to admit what they want and to act accordingly. America is the worst for this. I love being american and living here, but not for the sex. Or for the love. It takies a lot of time to make a girl feel safe enough to become just herself. I am sure it is the same in the other direction. The puritan ethic for all it has done to make us a professional power has toally fucked us for sex and relationships. Not that anyone else has it so right though. Plenty of bullshit goes on around the world. One principle to live by is that we generally get what we give. If we are needy, we get needy, if we are intelligent, we will attract it, if you want to know how fucked up you are, look at your relationships, friends and girlfriends and you will get a good cross-section of how fucked up you are mentally and emotionally. It can be a hard pill to swallow, but its the truth.