It's not to early Scott. Some guys will even bring flowers to a first date. I believe that my bf brought me a white rose on our second date or so, it was rather sweet. If you like her you can get upto a half dozen roses (although personally I enjoy the single rose myself)...however, there are nice arrangements out there that you can get that do not involve roses. I too say stay away from the red, colours are nice. I also would like to think that most women are not going to expect flowers from you all the time...you seem to be the type of person that wants to do nice things for your lady anyway...don't be discouraged and do what makes you feel good.
