Originally Posted by chase

I kinda follow you, as far as the fact that even if everything else if perfect, if the sex isn't good then eventually it will end, so why not know from the get-go if that's the case or not.

However, girls get played all the time by guys who ACT like they want a relationship just long enough to tap that ass and then they never call again. So they look at it as, hey, there's a chance he's fucking with me, so I may as well drag it out as long as possible to get to know him and vice versa, and if he's just playing, hopefully he'll get bored and move on before he gets the ass.

It's not a good plan, really, because players will play the game as long as necessary.

For me, it depends on the chemistry. My first date after my divorce went really well and we did wind up in bed. And, ya know, he never called me again. My fault for falling for the BS, but hell, I'm glad we didn't date for six months and maybe I really would have had my heart broken when he finally got the pussy and walked away. *shrug* As it was, it stung a little, being my first experience back in the dating pool, but there's nothing like a trial by fire to give you a reality check, lol.