I havent read much but sounds like the girl is way smarter than you and you havent figured it out...
Btw.. "xenigo: ok, well I think you've had some pretty fucked up relationships in your past. I have had some really wonderful relationships, with a few wonderful ladies. I haven't regretted anything at all."
That's so lame... "I'm better and more sane than you..!" .. and she did't buy it at all..