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Originally Posted by Cassie
your implication was made when you stated repeatedly that you like to have sex during a first date and kept pushing the subject throughout the convo. if that isn't an implication, than i dont know what is.
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I'm talking to you, just like I was talking to her... and we're talking about the same subject. I don't want to have sex with you, or her. Thanks for assuming, though.
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Originally Posted by Cassie
as far as the friends fucking on the same day, must have missed that as there was just wayyyyy too much to read. however, they are her friends and not a stranger (to assume loosely since you can't believe most of what people say).
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They were both strangers because she had met them that same night. I've talked to her about this in previous conversations.
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Originally Posted by Cassie
she is right, how the hell do you know, by having sex on the first date, if you are compatiable long term? you two may be great in bed and horrible every place else. and whatever happen to getting to know someone first? i can have sex with anyone and some it it could be great but if they don't pique my interest mentally then what is the use? by having sex on the first date (if you want to call it that - a date), then i just gave myself to someone who didn't earn it.
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When I know, and she knows... and we're interested in more than just a one-night thing that everyone in this thread is assuming I'm into, then it's not a one-night thing anymore.
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Originally Posted by Cassie
sex and love are completely separate but i would rather be into someone and give myself to the person who earned it rather than being a skank ho.
oh and speaking from a woman's perspective, sending 20 roses that soon into a "relationship" = stalker.
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Sex and love are closely intertwined. The emotions from one lead to, and intensify another, and vice versa. That's one of the reasons women find it so hard to have sex with a man without having intense emotional attachment towards him. Same situation with a guy, to perhaps a lesser degree.
And you won't find any psychologist that would disagree that sex and love are indeed closely intertwined.