|
Living together is the best way, Me and My Wife did for a year before we were married (3 years ago now)
You really get to know the person truly inside and out when you live with them and all the things that they do (or Dont do) are revealed when you live in the same space day in and out.
Love is the greatest thing in the whole wide world and you dont need a piece of paper or a ring to tell you that you are together.
If you are serious about marriage, and it is EXTREMEMLY serious, cause you are totally and completely responsible for this woman and any children you two may have, Be a man about it and Tell Dad and Mom whats up straight to their faces, that way you establish who controls your home and life together.
Reason I say set mom and dad straight, is I have a buddy that is being married this coming may and his father in law and mother in law are all up in their lives with complaining about, We dont like this, we dont like that. he is miserable now and wants to bag the whole thing, cause, this is what his life will become, mom and dad will want to control all. Nip that now man, or forever live as Daddy's boy.
Other than that, congrats on wanting to be married, I think it is the most wonderful adventure you can go on. Have a good one and post wedding pics man.
lates!
|