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Bottom line is she can get bitter, or get better.
Dwelling on the unfairness of it all will do nothing for her, and it won't change him. She needs to put herself back up at the top of that priority list and get herself straightened out and not worry about what he is doing anymore, because he is not her problem. It doesn't sound like there are kids, so she doesn't have it as bad as a lot of us who get divorced do or did.
It hurts, it's hard, and it sucks...but here's a life lesson: it isn't what it should be, it isn't what it could be; it is what it is. So she needs to accept it, and change the only thing she has the power to change-herself, and her life.
Best of luck to her.
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