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Pornwolf · 01-29-2006, 08:20 AM

Not for nothing, I like both of you ladies here and have enjoyed your posts over the years.

With that said, you guys are taking this issue personally and not looking at it for what it is.When a man marries a smaller girl obviously that package is what turns him on.

We aren't talking about the man that marries the bigger girl, more power to him. Plenty of people do.

We'e not talking about women with medical conditions, pregnant women or even women that are clincally insane and lose control around Ho Ho's.

This coversation if for the other guy. For the guy that marries a small woman obviously some of the attraction dies when the woman gets large. Not that he's not going to still love her, sure on an emotional level he will, but realistically the attraction is going to go away. Cheating is not far behind.

Who wants that to happen? So, it's in the woman's best interest to do what she can to keep that from happening. It's insanely irresponsible for her not to take care of herself and keep that from happening.

Same for the man, no one's claiming a double standard here, we have to keep looking as good as possible as well... although the first priority of a responsible husband is to financially take care of the home which puts us in a different bag.

I'm in the gym at least 4 days a week. 8% bodyfat and plenty of muscle. If my girlfriend starts to gain weight uncontrollably I'm going to help her lose it. But if she gets to the point where she just lets herself go and makes no effort to stay healthy then what the fuck do you expect me to do? Same goes for marriage. At least put in the effort I do.

01-29-2006, 08:20 AM
Pornwolf Drunk and Unruly Join Date: Jan 2002 Location: Hollywood Posts: 22,712	Not for nothing, I like both of you ladies here and have enjoyed your posts over the years. With that said, you guys are taking this issue personally and not looking at it for what it is.When a man marries a smaller girl obviously that package is what turns him on. We aren't talking about the man that marries the bigger girl, more power to him. Plenty of people do. We'e not talking about women with medical conditions, pregnant women or even women that are clincally insane and lose control around Ho Ho's. This coversation if for the other guy. For the guy that marries a small woman obviously some of the attraction dies when the woman gets large. Not that he's not going to still love her, sure on an emotional level he will, but realistically the attraction is going to go away. Cheating is not far behind. Who wants that to happen? So, it's in the woman's best interest to do what she can to keep that from happening. It's insanely irresponsible for her not to take care of herself and keep that from happening. Same for the man, no one's claiming a double standard here, we have to keep looking as good as possible as well... although the first priority of a responsible husband is to financially take care of the home which puts us in a different bag. I'm in the gym at least 4 days a week. 8% bodyfat and plenty of muscle. If my girlfriend starts to gain weight uncontrollably I'm going to help her lose it. But if she gets to the point where she just lets herself go and makes no effort to stay healthy then what the fuck do you expect me to do? Same goes for marriage. At least put in the effort I do. __________________ I've trusted my sites to them for over a decade... Webair, bitches. Last edited by Pornwolf; 01-29-2006 at 08:22 AM..