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Originally Posted by Pornwolf
I don't think anyone is talking about while a woman is pregnant or sick Ladymischeif. Put down the gun! LOL
Even you had the wherewithal to drop 75lbs to an decent weight after you had your baby. Looking good and feeling good is obviously important to you and I'm sure your man appreciated it.
Well, some... no, a lot of women don't put in the time necessary to get in shape after having a baby. They use the, "I just had a baby" excuse quite often... a year later!
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Yeah well I WAS big until after a year later... It's been two years now and I only started losing the weight about 8 months ago... It's certainly not because I was lazy or a glutton, but it's not like I dropped it right away either. You have to work within the constraints of your body, and I had some comments and shit directed at me when I still couldn't help my physicality. I think it's wrong for people to judge and assume, and I'm sure that when I was walking around with that extra 75 pounds a lot of people simply looked at me and said "WHAT A FAT UGLY PIG, SHE MUST BE A GLUTTON".
It's all about ASSUMPTION... My first cousin had a SEVERE glandular problem, she was over 400 pounds.. the girl ate lettuce and had NEVER been a big eater (hell she ate healthier than I do now!)... She was working with her doctor to deal with the weight, but it ripped my heart out seeing her cry when kids and even adults would make nasty comments about her weight. I've been in that place and it's not a nice thing....