I had a cleaning lady when I was married and it freaked me out, especially if I was home when she came. I never knew what to do. Are you supposed to just sit around on the couch watching TV while someone else is cleaning your house??? It felt too strange. Plus, I like things to be a certain way, particularly in my kitchen, so I didn't like another chick puttering around in there.
I would also get up early and make sure everything was clean and all the beds were made before she came, because I didn't want her to think I was messy. It drove my husband crazy and he thought I was insane. I finally made him fire her because it was too stressful having her around.
