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Stealthy ~ I started doing something to avoid the grab ass effect that your speaking of in regards to your friend's dancing.
When a guy asks me to dance and I accept, I tell him very sweetly and upfront that I enjoy dancing, but for some reason I simply cannot do it if we're too close together ~ and that I need a little space on the dance floor to have a good time.
If he starts to rub up against me or grab onto me, I back up and remind him that I need some space to be able to dance. If he does it again I just walk away.
It comes off bitchy *only* if the guy chooses to be a jerk and ignore my wishes, but if he's respectful of me I always have fun, and sometimes I'll start to feel comfortable enough to instigate some closer moves.
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