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Originally Posted by LadyMischief
The biggest problem with all of this is that the human heart is a fickle thing... People fall in love with someone, and no matter what you tell them or how hard you try to show them, they refuse to believe the worst until it's too late, and by then their bank account and emotions have been affected. I've seen it so many times, people I cared about falling into the traps of manipulative people who use the emotions of others to get what they want. That's not an easy battle to fight.
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You're right. Some people only see what they want to see. Selective reality. Then later on, they kick themselves and ask why they didn't see it coming. Happens to everyone at some point or another... but there comes a point when you have to take responsibility for some of it and not just be the victim. I guess it all comes down to living and learning.