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Originally Posted by RogerV
This is exactly why you need to have things in writing before you say I do. so everyone knows what they are agreeing on. sorry shit happens and love rarely last forever if its not blood thick. If it does last till death it was a great partnership.
I agree relations are not just about sex and materialistic things. but taking half is bull shit unless you earned it not married into it.
ALl I'm saying is lay your cards out first and there is never any surprises I personally recomend it in writing before you say I Do so there is no miss understandings if it doesnt work out.
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I agree with you to a certain degree. Not everyone who gets something out of a divorce "earns" it... but that is the risk you take when you marry someone.
In NY where I live and many other states, what you own before marriage is always yours and what you buy after marriage, automatically belongs to your spouse as well. Unless there is a pre-nup or other arrangements while the divorce is taking place.
If people would just communicate and plan for life after the fantasy wedding more often, there wouldn't be so many bitter emotional and financial endings.