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I've been with my wife for 14 years and married for 8. One thing I learned was that marriage is an ongoing project, not a contract on paper. If you don't put effort in to loving your partner, you get the same in return and you end up unhappy.
My wife and I are best friends and even though after 14 years our interests have shifted at the end of the day she comes home to spend time with me (and I with her) because we feel the want to spend time with eachother.
Marriage is not like dating where people have this disgusting need to spend every waking moment together. There isn't a person on the planet that I want to spend every waking moment with. You need interaction with alternate sources to keep a relationship healthy. IMHO of course.
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