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I dunno, I've been in the opposite situation, it was the men who tore my heart out and stomped on them. They were the ones who fucked around, pulled bullshit, ruined things, and nothing I did changed it, so I walked away. I am now with a man who treats me with love and respect, and I treat him the same, and as long as you are nurturing that relationship in all ways possible, there's no reason why it should ever become a "business" thing. You want to share everythign you have with th eperson you love...
That being said, I ALSO agree that it is human nature to "cheat", anthropologically this has been proven, it's simply another way for our species to proliferate itself. Hence the reason I pick his girlfriends and give him the variety he needs without him having to "look" outside the relationship to get it. Why not share in it with him, we both gain pleasure from it, and at the end of the day, ALL our needs are fulfilled. Anything is possible, it really all depends on the people in the relationship.
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