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Originally Posted by GatorB
Maybe you should listen more carefully. Any man that would complain about having to help support child they helped bring into this world are fucked in the head. I'm sure some men do do this. I think it's more that the ammount and how the funds are being used.
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It's the same kind of stuff I'm hearing in this thread.
"I pay $400 a month and she's spending it on bowling with friends!"
As if that $400 a month is allowing her and the kids to live like royalty.
That $400 a month gets spent one way or another taking care of those kids, it's just that the guys I think are fed up thinking they are broke while the ex gets to play.
Or that they use this as a way of controlling their ex, or it becomes yet another game...just like it has around here with my brother in law.
Like I said this guy owes about $40K in child support, and if he sends $100 to the kids, he then spends 15 minutes lecturing my sister or my nieces that the money is supposed to go to them and only them...not us...LOL...when most of my money goes to providing support for them..that $100 wouldn't even pay the cable bill.
I have had too many dumb ass friends, and acquaintances, step sisters and their exes and seen this same scenario played out far too often.