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Originally Posted by eroswebmaster
dumb shit, taking care of your children would include paying for retirement, providing a car for necessary travel, buying food and drink
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including your own expenses on top of what the child would use him or herself, thats just plain stupid in my opinion. you would have to clothe and feed and shelter yourself regardless or not if you had a child. why should i pay for my ex's rent or whatever else? if she lived with me it would be cheaper because we would be splitting the costs. i don't feel anyone should have to pay much more beyond what expenses the child actually causes.
if the mother doesn't have a good enough job to pay for her a place for her and her child, that mother shouldn't have the child. if babysitting is an issue, im sure thats something dads would be willing to spend money on, as it goes to the child but i'd sooner pay the babysitter/daycare directly myself so i know she isn't just leaving her with some idiot friend or sleepy elderly relative and pocketing the money.