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Originally Posted by CDSmith
There are also plenty of guys out there who show up for their visitation, take the kid out and spoil him or her rotten, while the mother is the one who has to enforce the basic daily rules and discipline etc, in effect making her the "bad guy" and the dad is the "good guy".
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Seen that one too myself.
My mother pulled this one. Shit I was running the streets past midnight at the age of 11 and 12, mother never enforced a single rule...we loved to go over to her house.
My dad was the one having to provide the essentials for us, my mother was the one taking us on trips and stuff...rarely ever buying us clothes..and this is a woman who did not have to pay child support and was remarried and not needing to work.
While we struggled basically 24-25 days out of the month, she spoiled us for 6...I picked up on it at a very early age so my mother and I never had the greatest relationship because I always called her on the bullshit.