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My wife is paying $500 a month for her daughter here in PA. The daughter lives with her dad since the school districts are MUCH better where he lives and for the longest time would battle us in court for visitation that its not a good idea. ( He didnt like my wife getting remarried, its a I cant have you, no one will kinda asshole )
The courts here take the child's point into view, now that she's 14 she can pick and choose... so, what does dad do?...
You can go to see your mom at her house *or* go with me to Great Adventure ( amusement park ) ... at 13, what would you take?
This has been going on time and time again with these idiots and no matter what shit they put us thru, I'll pay and hopefully one day have her see the light and at least be able to talk to her mother without that being followed with legal papers.
Some men are really fucked up absolutely, when it comes to letting go of the past and allowing people to move on. The one fact most dont realize when using kids as pawns... you dont get this time back of their childhood.
Only 4 more years until she can contact us on her own, My door will be forever open to her.
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