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Originally Posted by AlienQ
I've paid my Child Support sicne day one.
I hate paying it though, and the reason is I was made to not have a choice. The state of California basically allowed my daughter to be kidnapped out to COlorado by her mom when we separated. I fought in Divorce court and custody for over two years.
The only thing I got was slight visitation and to pay $350.00 mo.
The courts decide with the mom's all the time. I even proved in court the whore took speed, yet the courts decided she oughtah have custody.
So in essence IMHO $350.00 is whore money.
I hardly ever get to see my daughter, calls are not returned and the visitation agreement is in shambles 10 years later, with my daughter calling another man "Daddy".
I must be a real fucken idiot to pay it.
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I understand what you're going through..and I guarantee you I have more divorce experience than most people on this board.
Going on almost 30 years of bitter fights between my parents, and various family members. Hell my mom was married and divorced 6 times, her last divorce I filed the petitions for her because she couldn't afford an attorney to get it started.
Yeah the courts side on the moms a lot. And you say you proved she took speed...but divorce is an ugly thing man a lot of shit gets said, accusations made and the judge has to look at all that.
Not saying that this is your case, but I've had friends who watched their ex's do the drugs stayed with them for 5 years, and then when the ex got cleaned up and wanted a divorce all of a sudden the drugs become an issue they used against them in court.
The judges see a lot of manipulation during these times, not saying that is what you were doing, but that is in the back of their minds.